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Dear Thelma, What Could This Mean?

Dear Thelma, please help me post this on your blog I hope I can get answers from your blog readers. I am a lady in mid twenties, I served last year and I have been job hunting since then. I am single for now even though I have somebody I am talking to but things are not very serious. Actually the reason I am worried is that I have been having similar dream for some years now. It is usually the dream of seeing myself in my secondary school or wearing school uniform, most time I see my self taking JSS exam, last nite I dreamt that I was in JSS 2 writing interscience exam. The thing is in the dream I am my real age but I will be in JSS most times. I have asked questions and people say it means things like demotion or setback. I don't know if it is mere superstition or if it is true, and I don't know what to do, whether it's ordinary dreams or if it could mean something. Please is there anyone else experiencing this kind of thing or who has experienced it, if you can tell me what to do? I need answers as I am getting worried. Thanks thelma for helping me post it. 


  1. You need to download the word of God in you. If you have accepted Jesus and you have the HolySpirit then pray in tongues and cast it out. I don't believe such things cos the bible says who the son of man sets free is free indeed! Take a hold of your freedom in Christ. Declare what the word of God says over your life. The path of the just is as a shinning light that shines brighter n brighter so there can't be any form of backwardness or demotion in your life. Just know who you are and what you have in Christ Jesus.

  2. I used to have those dreams alot! It means demotion, bacwardness and stagnation. Pray against it. And declare the word of God over ur life just like ib said. It is well my dear.try mfm prayers agaisnt stagnation.

  3. Ahhhhhhh,sweethrt, go for deliverance ASAP,because this ain't ordinary, u might not get any job if u don't go through spiritual cleansing and plsss make the word of God your companion and talk to a prophet about it. God help u

  4. Oh my God!

    This is mere superstition...
    But if you are a Christian, and your church is one of those prayer in the mountain ish, then go for deliverance.
    Hopefully that would psychologically relief you.

  5. Not a good dream dear poster. I would recommend that you go for deliverance to cancel all that backwardness from your life. It is well with you

  6. No, it is not mere superstition.
    There are many dreams: those inspired by our thought, others by our fear and some Dreams are inspired by the Holy Spirit, dreams are inspired by our current mental state and others for revelation for solution to your problems.

    The bible says in Deuteronomy 29:29 that The secret things belong to the LORD our God, but the things revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that we may follow all the words of this law.

    It is safe to conclude that because this dream has been ongoing and you have had it several times, it is one of the dreams that you need something about, this is inspired from heaven haven revealed deep and hidden things that have probably hindered your past, current situation or future.

    Child of God, rejoice for it has been revealed to you that there are spirits contending with your advancement.

    As mentioned by other commenters, it means retrogression and backwardness.
    in all of this do not fear because if you have a relationship with your maker he has promised you victory indeed.

    Daniel 2:22 He reveals deep and hidden things; he knows what lies in darkness, and light dwells with him.

    Rejoice for victory has been assured for those that are in God.

  7. Now that you know these truths, it's easy to focus on pogressive prayers.
    I will not assume you're a Christian but if you are it's time to re-dedicate your life to Christ.

    Next, arm yourself with scriptures and pray according to scriptures. The bible says that Gods word must surely come to pass and that he honors his word above his name. It's time to remind God of his word and covenant which he has already put forth ahead of you.

    First though, You have to repent of all known and unknown Sins, break yourself from all known curses, simply put you need a deliverance session.

    Of course you will have to fast and let go of all your old ways. Finally speak the word of God expressly over your life and situation because the bible says that Jesus has come to set even the lawful captives free.

    A simple google search on progressive prayers against backwardness resulted in many helpful pages especially from MFM

    here's the first that came up

    Remember dear, that you must ask the Holy Spirit to help you, ask God to open your ears to know when he's speaking to you. And most importantly please don't go back to your past days of sin.

    There is no distance in prayers , I agree with you today that this is the end of the former days- child of God rejoice!


    2. Lol, Thelma, baby steps :-)

  8. Jesus is the only solution. Give your life to Christ, fast and pray against all spiritual demotions. You will be fine

  9. because of many fake men of God everywhere, we no longer believe that there are a few good ones. my dear, its not a good dream. you are stagnant in the realm of the spirit. my pastor can help pray for you. if you are interested call me. 08107076575

    1. Dear Anon,
      Please let her know God for herself.
      She has the same access to God as your pastor has.
      Enough of spoon feeding Christians, wake up!

  10. It definitely isn't superstition. It clearly denotes backwardness or stagnation. Whatever your belief is, now is the time to fight for your liberation.



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