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Seriously Men, Why Do You Do This???





You see just last night I spent a full hour trying to calm my irate and heartbroken friend down. Apparently the one who told her she was his missing rib must have had no ribs at all because as it turns out, he has plenty missing ribs!

They've been seeing for a few months now and almost from the get go he told her that she's his wife. Took her home, introduced her to his family, who soon started addressing her as Iyawo wa (why do people do this tho? Just... WHY), met her siblings, took her shopping a few times and many many many other things. 

Well just this week alone, by sheer coincidence, she has met two other girlfriends of his, whom he's also promised marriage to, who have also met his family, who are also called Iyawo wa by his family, who he also takes shopping and TO THE SAME SHOPS, whose families he has also met, and all this in the same period!

As it turns out now it seems uncle is even married sef... Issorai!


So the post above was sent to Toke Makinwa by one of her fans. The mail doesn't end there. She said the guy was the "cousin" getting married and she helped in picking out shoes for the babe he was getting married to. OMG that's so cold! She said there was no closure and the guy almost immediately deleted her from all his social network.


Hmmm, why are men so evil? Or is this something we ladies some times bring on ourselves? Nah... I think men are just evooool! What do you think?

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  1. I guess they aren't called Yoruba demons on twitter for nothing.

    #NB: Pls this isn't a tribal statement. Read with humor filled in ur hearts. Thank you...

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  2. In relation to the last Post, women are also *good* in this. Yours truly was a victim. Her mum and siblings would welcome me with open arms, entertain me and all, yet I was like one of those special fish you "point and kill" in her life. The geh had many boiz in her life. Smh.

    WOMEN, WHY???

    #NB: please this isn't a gender related rant. Read with humor filled in your hearts. Thank you..and GOD bless.

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    1. Hahhhgahajahahaahahhahaha,Memphis, thou hart wicked. See as u do copy cat. U right though, it's everywhere, the way we complain, is the way men complain, so it's a two way thing. Both genders cheat and it wouldn't stop in our generation. I have been a cheater and I have been cheated, so na normal ish ir life. She should move on.

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    2. Oga Memphis I hail thee for this one o. Thank you very much, the truth is that I think women are way better at leading men on like cattle. The reason their own doesn't seem so drastic is that they are not the ones to promise marriage. But they will lead several men on at the same time, when you go and visit them their friends and family will make you feel like you're the one and only man in her life. Meanwhile she's just waiting for first to propose or for the one she likes the most to propose. That one she likes most hardly proposes because she makes it so obvious she's so into him. So she agrees for the next best.

      I had an ex once, if you see the way her friends and family used to treat me. Even her mum used to call me to Gist and advice me. You'd think I was their heaven. One day I went to see her, as I got into her compound I overheard her through the window talking on the phone so out of curiosity I decided to eavesdrop. Apparently she was talking to a friend and the friend was asking her about all the guys in her life, and she kept answering. When I heard my name I froze, she said that she liked me but she didn't think I was ready to settle yet. So once so and so steps up she's gone. My eye cleared.

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    3. Steele and Memphis, women don show una too ohhhh. Choiiii kpele.lol.

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    4. Lol, that na why we dey try get sense small but e no easy because every una dey come out with new format

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  3. I gotta ask too... seriously men. Why?

    Why be so heartless to an innocent person. Some men dont know how to act? What exactly did he gain from leaving this girl like this? He could and should have told her since. Its what a stand up guy would do.

    Peace.

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  4. Those relatives supporting this devilish act while they know are more evil than the players (men & women).

    -F

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  5. Memphis and Sasha wee yu keekwayet!!

    #NB:please this isn't an insult.Read with humor filled in your hearts.Thank you..and GOD bless.

    Back to post.
    Hmnnnn, I pity the babe nor be small.how can she ever get closure?
    Girls lead guys on too we know but they will slip along the line,If you are a sharp guy you will definitely know she is cheating on you and wants out of the relationship. But MEN? they will lead you until rapture happens before your very eyes.
    May God not let me enter one chance cos I fit just naked baff.

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  6. hahahahaha...

    #NB:I read what has been said with humour filled so much in my heart

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  7. Your respective comments havw guven me something to laugh about after a very tiring day. Truth ia women do this allllooot as well. But the thingvabout men as stated above is that the ruin you . If you get what i mean.
    They just take it to a different dimenaion of evoooool!!!!

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  8. I read those posts on instagram yesterday and I could only pity the new wife.
    The relatives that call her ''iyawo'' are multiple demons in one.

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