Happy v day in arrears to the house. Please I have a little issue that's been nagging my head.
I'm married to my best friend and we have a little baby together. My husband's mum is late and mine lives outside the country with her family (she and my dad divorced). Long story short, because of my baby and my business which I run from home, and I'm also still in school doing my pgd I needed assistance at home so I have a maid. I feel like this girl is a blessing to me because she is great with the chores and the baby. Sometimes I feel safe leaving her alone with the baby while I sleep or study, I feel like I can really trust her. I'm in my late twenties while she's in her early twenties, she's not very educated but she is neat and doesn't look like a maid and that is even why I employed her. But the problem is that everytime a friend visits me they're quick to point out how beautiful she is. I usually ignore it or take it as a compliment but these days it's getting worse. last week I got a visitor who kept on pointing out that she's too hot, and reminded me that she's even a Calabar girl. She said that am I sure it's the wise thing to have a maid that looks like this? Another of my cousins expressed the same concerns, she said as a married woman she can never have a maid that looks like this, that I'm simply tempting my husband to cheat. She said it's like dangling fish in front of a cat. Everyone always notice how pretty she is and that her body is curvaeceous but that never bothered me before.
So far my husband has been very good and I've never suspected him of cheating on me, also he doesn't relate with our maid much. My maid also is very respectful of me doesn't give me any trouble at home. But with all these warnings I'm getting from family and friends, should I send her away and find someone else? The truth is I don't want to because I like her a lot but if her presence can cause problems for me then I won't hesitate to send her packing.