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TTB Hot Seat.

Hey guys! I think we need to shake things up around here. I've been toying with some ideas for the blog; fun and exciting things we can do and/or talk about. 

Among these ideas, there's one I'd love to start out now, and that's a chat with some of my most interesting commenters. I know most of us are curious about certain people on the blog and presently I've got a number of blog readers I would like to chat to, interview style. This could either be a phone conversation/chat, or in person. Whichever is more convenient. If it's in person then trust pictures to follow!

I would like to start with a guy so I'm thinking Memphis, Steele or Kon for starters. Actually I've already talked to Memphis about it and he's good to go. I've got a lot I would like to ask him and share on the blog, but I think you should have a say. 

So do tell, in this chat with Memphis what would you like us to talk about? Is there something about him you've been curious about and want to know? Have you got questions for him, naughty ones too,... Is there something you'd like to say to him or something you'd love his opinion on? Whatever it is, drop them in this comment section and I'd be sure to incorporate it in our chat and get you all the juicy deets from Memphis. (Yes I know a lot of us are curious, a lot of you lowkey ask me about Memphis). 

Also, which other blog reader would you like us to put on the hot seat? Tell me in the comment section and I would make it happen. 

Talk to me guys, I'm all ears. 


  1. Pls where is Uyi? brb on Memphis.

  2. 1) Do you consider yourself an intellectual?
    2) Do you think you have superiority complex?
    3) Tell us the real reason why you visit this blog regularly
    4) Do you think you are handsome?
    5) Are you born again? As in the real born again. Tongue speaking..
    6) On a scale of 1 - 10. What would you rate yourself in terms of being a correct guy. As in a guy's guy.


    1. Hian at your real born again tongue speaking... Are there fake born again? Is it speaking of tongues that make you born again? Tongues speaking is something that we all as Christians have in us, we just have to harness it. But some people will do a lot of growing before they can be bold enough to harness it. Plus I might be wrong, but I don't think the catholics are very keen on tongue speaking ( if they can they do, and if they can't they don't) does that mean the whole lot of them are not born again? Hian

  3. Hahaha,nice idea Thelma.Biko ask him how his girlfriend(if he has one)copes with his over seriousness..Where is Mr Alfarsi?an interview won't be bad either..TNHW

  4. Yh.... Where is uyi tho? As per Memphis, I'm really curious. What state are you from? Do you have a girlfriend? What are the words you live by? Who is your crush on ttb? Whose comments do you like most on ttb? Moment you were proudest of? 😊. Thelma can you put Uyi, Kabuoy, Sasha bone on the hot seat

  5. Yay!!!!!!!! My crush is first! I've kuku been stalking him on Instagram! Lmaoo... Naybe not stalking but sunshine did some fbi tinz and I was able to see pictures. Looool!

    So first question : what exactly do you do.... Like work description

    Second: what inspires you/ keeps you going

    Third: have you ever had romantic thoughts about Thelma? Lmaoooo! Somewhere in my head, I feel you Guys would be good together! 😉

    I,l'll be back for more

  6. Would like to know whatsup with "Bae", haven't heard anything about that from Memphis in a while.

    1. *side eye* which bae are you looking for again Tiwa.... Helloooo! Lmaoooo!

      Memphis answer this question carefully! Flying tackle still abounds!

  7. Oya,all those who are curious to know about Memphis, bring your questions on, RME@ kabouy.

  8. Lol. Drama.

    I think I may plead the fifth on some questions o. Lol

    Kabuoy...**hian** at ya last question sha :D

    1. Lai Lai to the Lai Lai!

      You must answer all oooo! Ehen!

  9. Memphis who are you? Like from birth till date.
    Relationship status?
    Best food?
    Your kinda woman?
    Virgin or celibate?
    Christian or muslim?
    Born again or born before?
    Best friend in the house?
    crush on any BV? Names please.
    Ever Met Thelma outside the blogosphere?
    If you would date any BV, who would it be?
    Your best male BV?
    What is your daily routine?
    What and who inspires you?
    Your mentors?
    Where do you live?
    State of Origin?
    Your 1st kiss was?
    social or anti-social?
    Position in the family?
    Fine boy no pimples or fine boy small pimples?
    six packs,three packs or 2pac?
    Embarrassing moments?
    Best moments?

    We want sincere answers and not "No comments" answers.

    1. Na wa o @ Bloggit up. O ma a o. You wan write Biography about the guy. LOLz

    2. Blogittup! Why u wan dey fall my hand. You for just come ask me for my FBI tips, it would have answered a good number of your questions.(at least 4) Loool! Anytime boo! Anytime!

    3. Lol.. like a slum book in secondary school.

  10. His name is Chijioke Gabriel (Memphis)
    He's a Catholic
    He's not a virgin but Celebate
    He's from Enugu State
    He loves his family alot
    He's the only Son with sisters
    He's Tall, dark, beard gang, a lil bit handsome.
    He used to have a crush on Ruthy while she was here
    He's dating someone (I'm sorry Kabouy)
    More info coming soon
    I'm that underground FBI agent badder than Sunshine😁😆

    1. The Internet truly isn't safe :(

    2. Jisos...should I call u a yansh opener ni?or u are the girlfriend..Anyway,ur FBI skills are on point..TNHW

    3. O boy! See undercover agent! Lmaooooo! 🙌
      Two hands up for you o! Loool!

      So Chinonso are you the one I should direct the flying tackle at or you're gonna do your job well and give me info I can work with... *cracks knuckles* *jumps up and down*

    4. Now I'm suspecting Kabuoy.

      KABOUY,come here NOW!!!!!

    5. Omo! My FBI skills are very very bad. The only thing I found out was his IG and he's not even active sef... lol...

      Memphis, the monitoring spirits are real o

    6. Sunshine your skills needs to be sharpened ooooo@ chinonso,o girl u bad oh abi u are one of d sisters or his babe? Which one ohhhh.

    7. OMG!

      Thelma, looks like someone already helped u out with the chat!


    8. na die I dey 4 here ... please next hot seat candidate

  11. Lmao @born before. I can't wait for Memphis to answer al these questions ohhh biko.


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