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When They Take Your Boo And Ask You Not To Take It Personal...

And I ask once again why men do this. I'm not even mad at the Rume chic, but men. Okunrin. Umu nwoke.
Something happened last week when I was having dinner with a supposed "love interest". So you know how there are some people that you always address with both name and surname? Well I was talking about my friend *Temi Cole. I think I said something like "TemiCole and I went to the shop together but the dress looked better on her, like, she's got a really nice figure n all so..." Before I even finished talking, he asked me "Temi who?". "Temi Cole" said I, without even thinking. The next day Mr Man had gone to search "Temi Cole" on facebook and send her a friend request. I only knew because I was with his phone when the notification of acceptance came in. Umu nwoke...

Anyhoo, so some of you might have heard about this situation below. I don't know anyone involved, got this off Instagram. 

My only question is how do you take someone's Bae of 4 years and say "don't take it personal"? You know, I could let it slide if you take my man. But then you tell me not to take it personal??? Arghhhhhh! 


  1. Babes ain't got chill anymore.Some guys are meant to be castrated..TNHW

  2. Does God bless such unions? The world is full of wicked people.

  3. They deserve each other. This kind of guy can sleep with your friend even when you guys are married so good riddance.J

    1. Im done ranting about this on sdk. They really do deserve themselves.

  4. Naaa. Hurts to the bone. Evelyn should cry and heal. Dust her pain, walk with dignity and wait for a deserving man.

    As for that stupid BF, thunder fire am.

  5. the guy is just a lier,some girls are trying sha..i cannot even date someone that has been involved with my friend. i can smell desperation in d two ladies....

  6. Lmaooo @ "it shall never be well with you"

  7. She shouldn't have responded sed,at "he obviously thought I was better than you."
    And the girl now used her money to travel and receive break up message choiiiii

  8. And this ish has happened to an aunty of mine three times,two of the marriages are over last i heard, no one is saying one cannot change his mind,have enough respect for the affected party to break up before starting something new, except they didn't really date as he claimed.

  9. Some men would remain the dogs they are and we women,ohhhh,our desperacy for a partner has turned some of us to bicthes, she should move on,she deserves better, the rume got herself into an everlasting hell,in no distance time,she would be biting her fingers because karma is d real bitch.

  10. Imagine "he obviously thought i was a better person". Just wait, we will see how much better you are at handling the foolishness he will display

  11. Wait. What is the meaning of 'take your man'? Was he kidnapped? Yall should stop playing. Nobody can take any man that doesnt want to be taken. He left her and when to her friend. Its incorrect to say the friend took him.

    Anyways, the 2nd girl is disrespectful. Basic courtesy demands that you tell your friend that her man likes you and you like him back. Simple.


  12. I hear the dude also wrote his own side of the story.

  13. Baffles me how one can spell "liar" as "lier"..i see it everywhere. Is it that they don't know how it's spelt or they spell it how they pronounce it? God help una oo.

    My dear Thelma, i've seen/read way too much to be baffled anymore about happenings around me. i just tire abeg


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