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Yes. No. I Don't Know...

First off, no I don't even want to be with my partner's phone for a whole day because I cannot predict the outcome and I fear it might not be great. So nna m jide phone gi, keep your phone. 


To answer the question, right now YES YES YES. I'm being such a good girl, I would gladly leave my phone with him for a day. 



  1. Yes, I've given it to him for a whole day before cos he was expecting a very important mail via my email and I wanted to spend the whole day at my parents'. He had to reach me on my cousins' phone all day.

  2. Let me drop one of the points that will be in my book on how to teach men to cheat.

    1. Always have the numbers of your side chicks written out in code in a book or on your ipad. Something that you use at work. On something that will be at the destination you visit frequently. Could be at work, in the car.

    2. Once you get to work. Get the side chicks number from your work note book, call the side chicks and say "I left my phone at home. Dont send any message"

    3. Its always a better plan to be open with the side chick. Its never a good idea to lie that you are not married or that you are single. The above plan will only work if you had told the side chick about your status.


    1. Kon if your wife reads some of your comments she might instantly go into cardiac arrest.

    2. Oh my! Kon, best be sure your wife doesn't visit this blog oh!

    3. As in, the wife will not only go into cardiac arrest but when she wakes up and remembers she would have another one.

  3. Yes. Especially if he'd listen to my explanation (in case one 'mistaken' person chooses to contact me).

  4. Hell No!!!!! *runs away

  5. I would gladly do so but whatever his eyes see 'ko faramo o'. I rarely receive calls and I rarely chat but I have some very naughty friends who like teasing with the little endowment I have. So it's all good. He would however have to give me a phone for that day.

  6. I can leave it with him for a whole year if he likes, nothing!0

  7. Let sleeping dogs lie, abi na so dem dey talk am

  8. Lol of course. We're very open with each other. Too open sef. We don't have anything to hide from each other.

  9. No way. I don't want to be experiencing fake pre-valentine attitude all year long.

  10. Well....if the person is "my partner", sure. The babe can get my facebook password as well! This kind of thing can really build trust.

    @Kon. There are a million ways for both parties to cheat, especially if some phones retail at N3k. When you save your sidechick's number as "mechanic Mutairu" in your hidden phone, don't be surprised when your partner goes for a night vigil then starts missing her period.

    Cheating is easy, it takes a real man/ woman to be faithful.

  11. I can leave my phone with about anybody bar my overly religious parents. pictures with female coursemates might need explanation, smh

  12. The person can have the password too. But really, that would not stop anyone who really has to go out of his/er way to be bad.

  13. oga might vex ...there are people who won't leave me alone.. I flirt sometimes..when bored.. so leaving my phone with him is a no.. i don't want stress mbok

  14. Yaaah finally i can now comment using my phone *dancing shakiti bobo*

  15. I can leave it for a week sef. Nigga will be bored stiff waiting for juicy stuff that doesn't exist... lol

  16. Yes I can and things would remain the same. I can be a shameless flirt, but it's always within the limit that gives me room to bail myself out when I have to.

  17. He can keep the phone shaking

  18. Yes.. He'll just get a lot of calls from guys who "just want to greet you". Dahs all

  19. Oh YES, anyway, my phone hardly rings.


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