Hello T, it's ok if you don't feel comfortable posting my mail but i will appreciate it if you do. My boyfriend and soon to be husband has been asking for a request for sometime and being honest with myself I actually want to do it, because he has been so good to me. He was like the answer to all the prayers in my life when everything was just very depressing and nothing good was happening for me. My ex just disappeared from my life because according to him I did not have a job and he needed to marry somebody that can bring something to the table. Thelma I was jobless, broke, single and very depressed when I met this man. He did not only get me the job where I am working now but even helped my twin sister to get a job too. Last year he took me to europe and us, the very first time I'm leaving this country and this year he is planning vacations for us abroad again and for our honeymoon, please don't look at it as if I love him only for money because it is not true, it's just that I never believe that somebody can love me to this extent. Even when his aging month was saying that she doesn't want Himto marry somebody from my place he stood his grounds and said that it is either me or nobody else, he made sure that his family accepted me against the person they wanted because he is the first son.
I cannot begin to tell you all the things this man has done for me but he has truly changed my life and even my family. Thelma I even now drive a car o! In almost two years of dating I have never caught him cheating on me and I just have so much peace with him. The only issue now is that he's been saying he will like us to do something fun to spice up our sex life. We really enjoy good sex together but he said for more flavour that can we have a threesome? At first I thought he was joking but he has asked several times again, although not forcefully or putting me under pressure. He says he just thinks we will enjoy it and even strengthen our bond. Personally I have nothing against it really so it is not like I am under duress but I'm afraid that it will change our relationship or bring about something negative that might affect us. We are planning our wedding for november-december and I don't want anything to come and scatter our plans. Please I need advise from your mature reader because I want to be guided. Thank you.