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Honestly, Would You Rather Be Self-Made?

The Phase 2 of our women empowerment programme 'I'd Rather Be Self Made' took place last Saturday March 12th in Surulere and the turn out was massive. There were way more girls than I expected to see. This tells me that there are many ladies out there with ambition, vision, talent and determination to succeed that need the push and help to get to where they need to get to. Will do the best that I can to help and also get the rich folks involved in this project. We have to come together to help Nigeria's needs for independent women.

We are also working on setting up a Self Made club where these girls can interact on a regular basis, to learn from each other, inspire and uplift each other. And then, have volunteers who have succeeded in different business endeavour come in once a month to train these girls and show them the ropes. Will keep you guys updated. 

-All culled from Linda Ikeji's blog

Meanwhile disregard the title #clickbait. I really love this cause, especially forming a group for the girls to keep in touch, network, share ideas, share trade secrets and generally inspire each other. Oh, I also like the part of successful past "beneficiaries" coming in to train the newbies. I really think this is a great initiative. 

I'm hoping other privileged people can partner with Linda and do more for these girls, the (financial) burden shouldn't be on her alone, no matter how much money she's making. 


  1. Kon bring in ur comment...good job Linda.TNHW

    1. My Linda baby!!! She is doing good. Dont forget to call me Linda baby.

  2. I love seeing women empowering other women. Very few people really want yo help. Love or hate het Linda is doing a great job.

  3. Stop licking linda's ass. I like u alot thelma. Please stop it.

    1. And whose ass would you rather prefer she licks?

      Ooh,and please get busy,lick a plate or something.

    2. #FreedomToLickAss

    3. Lol!!! Dude, U crazy :-)

  4. Theres nothing wrong in thelma "licking lindas ass" linda is far up in the blogging game thelma is also into. Nothing wrong in licking her ass.

    1. Well I don't see this as licking ass, she was just sharing information so that anyone that's interested can get involved in any capacity.

      By the way... I don't support ass licking of any kind be it to arouse someone physically or mentally... You can earn that which you deserve without licking anyone's ass.

  5. Nice up on Linda's part. If all privileged folks do this sort of thing, the world would be an easier and a more beautiful place to live in.


  6. Appreciating another person's success is not the same thing as licking ass! weda you like it or not Linda's money and yours @anonymous no be mate and in your own little corner who you help?!and can we just stop using d language licking ass!...eerrrm ...tanku for #JoyDaNuGirl

  7. why going anonymous to respond to the anonymous post. I am a die hard feminist. I love seeing or hearing women succeed. God bless you Linda for putting smiles on the faces of these young women. The joy of being mentored by a successful lady is mind blowing.

  8. Linda's sister always trying to form hating though

  9. If Thelma doesn't praise linda they'll say she's a hater. If she praises her they'll say she's a kiss ass. You just can't pls people.


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