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Is Toyin Lawani Lying About Her Age?





The hardworking celebrity stylist, mom of two and socialite is a year older today. Happy happy birthday to her!

Here's the thing though, I thought it quite odd when Bella Naija reported that the stylista just turned 30. Not because I automatically doubt a woman's professed age, or because she looks older, but because I was quite sure that quite a while ago, like a couple of years ago, I thought her to be over 30. And then it hit me!



This is the headline on Bella Naija today.


  
 

In June 2013, the same Bella Naija reported her to be 31 Here. Which could only mean that the celebrity turned 34 today, right? So you can imagine my befuddlement with I saw 30.


Is the fault from Bella Naija or did Toyin, like most ladies over 30 fib about her age?


There's a possibility BN made an error, but if they didn't there's absolutely no reason to crucify Toyin Lawani. It's something most of us do, or have done at one point in time or the other. 
      On my last birthday I got a call from a new love interest. When he asked my age and I told him, my aunt shrieked! She said "HOW COULD YOUUUUUU? Why would you tell people your real age? Shave off three years at least, please don't tell anyone you just turned 30". Unfortunately I'm not very good at lying and I'd much rather tell the truth, no matter how unpleasant, than be caught in a lie, which can be terribly embarassing. 


So tell me people, how do you honestly feel about getting older? Do you sometimes feel pressured to shave a few years off? I know youth is a beautiful things, and the world is really obsessed with the young and being young. So could that be why people lie, or is it all just in our heads? 



Comments

  1. Why shave off some years off your age and when you die your real age is published out there. This happened to a colleague who lied about his age only for his pension scheme to push him on retirement. And another one we all thought was 57, when he passed the obituary said 73... Why lie

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  2. I won't wear dis agbada with dem abeg...no matter hw "trendy" dey say it is..back to the matter...like Thelma sed "why lie?" and my take; she is about 33-35 to me...#JoyDaNuGirl

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    2. Lolzzz..l dey, just say l no dey comment often. Trust you are good though...#smiles #JoyDaNuGirl

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  3. If she sent them the press release then she is lying. If they wrote it on their own then they are lying. The babe is at least 1984 - and that's being generous. I personally don't see a reason to reduce age - I am very proud of my years - grey hairs and all. Anybody who doesnt like it- oh well. I don't see myself as ageing - i see it as being more seasoned.

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  4. I have never felt pressure relationship-wise to reduce my age. But err during the job hunting just fresh outta school era, hmmm pressure was somehow cos we were competing with 21 year Olds fresh out of private school. Thank goodness say God win. Lol

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  5. Lol.....Bella Naija is helping her reduce the age. Weldon to them.

    Never lied about my age and i don't intend to start soon

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  6. Before finishing my NCE and degree programs, I might be 30 or above (depending on how fast I get DE for the degree program) so I intend to reduce my age so as to be able to do NYSC since their new age limit is 30.

    When I was much younger, I couldn't wait to reach 20 and above but now I wish I could yank off some years or better still return back to my younger days.

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  7. Usually took pride in telling people my real age, but with the way things are going right now, I might be shaving off 2years.never knew the day will come when I felt 24 was too old

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  8. Let's give both benefit of the doubt and take this as a honest mistake.

    I have never had a reason to reduce my age and pray not to. Most people I know reduce in order to land a good job or get a good guy. Regardless, I don't think I would feel comfortable to deliberately lie about my age.

    -F

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  9. Im 25! *Straight face*

    I just noticed one strand of gray hair on my head tho. Growing old sucks.

    Peace

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  10. Lmao... 30? na wa o, she must have started hustling real young then. The only time I've tampered with my age was when I needed a driver's license really bad, I was just 15 and the right age was at least 18, so I added 3yrs. I have always been in a circle where you get more respect with your years, so I don't see any reason to reduce. But somehow people never believe when I tell them my age, they always assume I'm at least 5yrs younger.

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  11. Everyone talking about how they reduced their age, and I added almost 4yrs to mine. SMH

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  12. i love my age. can't add or reduce jare

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  13. Well most times I rather not tell you my age cos a lot of people say I look younger than my age.I prefer to add to it sef.

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