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Sex OR Money. What Makes You Loyal?


At first glance I was like what sorta stoopid kweshun iz dizz?

But on second thought I'm like, hey, wait, maybe it's not so stupid after all. Loyalty is a huge deal to men. A woman's loyalty is one asset that just might keep her man faithful. And even when it doesn't (if you're dating a dog for instance and that's who you've chosen to be loyal to *rme*), it certainly wouldn't go unnoticed and unappreciated (unless you're dating a douche in which case you deserve whatever you get, for dating a douche).

Ok, on a more serious note though. Chris Brown said these girls ain't loyal, the song actually posits that if you've got a girlfriend and she's got a guy who's richer (and more generous) than you, then fogerrit, she ain't gon be loyal to you!

So apparently it's a money thing. 

But is it really? Forget about Chris Brown, I know how it can seem that money can buy a person's loyalty. It's money, not sex, after all that's said to make the world go round. 

My thoughts however... Between the two, I think SEX makes a woman loyal. I say sex because I see girls dating some extremely generous wealthy sugar daddies, but I don't see them being loyal to them. I've also seen girls, some friends even, being EXTREMELY loyal, respectful, submissive and faithful to guys who are verrrrry broke, or way younger than they are, just because of the D. I've noticed that orgasms can be a greater instrument of (control) than money. 

So my answer is Sex. 

What's yours?

(image courtesy of break_or_makeup Instagram) 


  1. hian!!! who sex help nwando??? money will make me loyal NA MY MIND I TALK. ok BYE!!

  2. The power of the D.

    Your logic makes sense Thelma. The D is so powerful that once a woman gets hooked on it. There is no going back. She will keep coming back for it and protect the best interest of the D. A woman can never get enough of the D. Its like finding your soul mate. Once a woman finds her soul mate D. Its sealed!

    Then Okafor's law will apply to her. Yall know Okafor's law right?

    Money will cure a woman's temporary needs. She will get filled up and comfortable then she will be ready to move on. But there is no moving on from a powerful D.


    1. I honestly don't know it ... Okafor's law

    2. Lmao @ Okafor's law...d law don't work for me mehhn! It's money all d way...reason is I don't need sex all d time no matter the 'greatness' of the D, but money I need even more with each passing day!!with dat I'm loyal o

    3. It states and I quote "If you've straffed a girl before, you will straff her again"

    4. Haahahahah@ Okafor's law. My first time of knowing about it; I must be quite archaic.

      If Okafor's law is what Dominique quoted, then it's all wash because it does not apply to some of us.

      I honestly do not believe sex would make a lady stay faithful to a guy, neither would money. Haven't we seen ladies who get good D from a guy but has a string of 'D-less' moneybags to keep the purse from getting dried up?

      A lady would stay faithful only if she has convinced herself and determined - for whatever combination of reasons - to stay faithful


    5. Very true @ F. Money and D...nah. I think the loyalty of anybody -both male and female - depends on personal decision.
      Like they always say, if you like do snake in monkey shadow in bed and be a world reknown chef, the heart will always know what it wants.

    6. Very true @ F. Money and D...nah. I think the loyalty of anybody -both male and female - depends on personal decision.
      Like they always say, if you like do snake in monkey shadow in bed and be a world reknown chef, the heart will always know what it wants.

  3. My answer is both... I will be very loyal if my man has got both. Only the D" cannot make me loyal, and money without the D" cannot make me loyal as well. Imagine if u are just getting the D" without being taken care of, hmmmm nawa o! na so sex sweet u reach?

  4. i think its none of those, attention, treating her right, listening and all those romantic crap does it. money or sex doesn't cut it

  5. We all know that. We are answering the question based on options given,"sex or money".it doesn't imply its just sex or money that makes a woman loyal.
    Money will most definitely bring out the loyalty material in me,5000 yards.

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  7. for me its Money over sex pls, if there's money i would accept the D whichever way it comes. sex without money would make me feel used except ofcourse its just f*ck buddy things.

  8. Who sex don 'helep'......biko wa te ego


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