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What You DON'T Know WILL Kill You!

Once upon a naive time I believed that what you didn't know couldn't kill you. You know, if everything is dandy then why go rocking the boat? Ignorance is indeed bliss, yes?

Well no. 

While I have so many personal stories to share with you on how what you don't know could in fact kill you, let's leave those for now and focus on the story below as seen on 

"on what you don’t know can hurt you…

“When I was busy doing love wantintin hubby was busy screwing the hell outta one geh like that…..mehn what I didn’t know led to pregnancy oh, led to introduction, before I knew Omo mehn I was fighting a lost battle ni o, 

Mr hubby’s pple simply told me e don happen e don happen noni but dem no born d geh well to come your territory that is to say enikan o di enikan lowo (make una translate am)


translation: His life with her doesn’t stand in the way of his life with you.


And when I finally took a bow I ended up at the colposcopy clinic at mayo general hospital, Ireland battling a STD that causes infection on the neck of the womb (still goes for check up, after the biopsy and receiving treatment) 

Eyin ara mi ni tooto, (my people) what you don’t know is simply a time bomb waiting to explode in your face, do some feasibility study combined with FBI job to see if u are safe oh.”

So tell me again exactly how ignorance is bliss. And the husband's family though... Are they for real???

I'll end with the last words of the writer; "what you don’t know is simply a time bomb waiting to explode in your face, do some feasibility study combined with FBI job to see if u are safe oh.”

I know we've got some FBI agents in the house, please share with us how "knowing" saved your life OR how not knowing almost killed you. LOL. 


  1. hmmmmmm. very deep breath. Not ready to go down memory lane now. Healing already. hmmmmmmmmm. karma oya over to you.

  2. Mehn, this one na gobe o. Guys why na. Haba.

  3. I dont get. Is your hband a muslim? How is he able to do introduction twice and his family acknowledges you. If he is a muslim then whether you know or not doesnt change anything.

    If he a Christian. Then I ask - Have you had children for him? Has there been any delay in that aspect? Maybe his family is after who will produce a grand child for them.

    As for the topic, its a proven fact that what you dont know can infact kill you. Too many examples. An example is Kodak (Didnt know the world was moving to pictures without films). Another example is Nokia (Didnt know the direction phone users were heading to) Another example is Xerox. So many.


    1. Another example is your wife not knowing what a man whose you are and still opening her legs for you till you get her infected with some disease. That's if she is not already infected sef. Ashawo kobo kobo.

  4. If noting else, the fear of stds will just kill person.

    All these people that advise you to chill with a serial cheat, God help the unsuspecting partner.

    I work daily with women plagued with Hiv/Aids transferred to them by their respective "late" husbands.

    Women/men, be wise, know the know s best as you can.

  5. Omo, life is hard. This relatnship sth can be just a bug.

  6. In the past I agreed with the the notion that what I do not know will not kill me when it came to relationship with my ex, but when what I did not know embarrassed me cos everyone knew he was a serial cheat except me.i made up my my mind
    to always snoop and even look for the facts cos ignorance is not bliss but denial.

  7. Wow! Na so man pikin for just die throway. Thank heavens for her life I pray she heals.

    Ignorance is not bliss o biko. No stories from my end.


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