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Tuesday, 26 April 2016

I Just Can't With Bae!




I am in my early twenties and in a long term relationship for over 4 years. My problem is that my boyfriend is a gossiper in the true sense of the word. I found it funny when occasionally we would engage in gossip but his mouth has now ran amuck. He talks everyday for hours on the phone with female friends about other girls and I am growing evermore concerned. He says he is advising them (female friends) but all I hear is gossip! To make it worse he does not work so I get annoyed that he is using his time talking about rubbish when he could be applying for good job. I get easily irritated with him and it is affecting the way I look at him as this is not a manly characteristic in my view. I don't know how to approach this subject with him without offending him. Leaving him is not an option, I love him. Please advice...I'm in love with a gbeborun.



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Hahaha. So I was reading this on @break_or_makeup on Instagram and it got me laughing hard. I'm sure for the poster it's no laughing matter but the truth is, no matter how madly in love you are with someone, they're still going to have some traits or characters that drive you up the wall. 

Let's have fun guys, let's talk about those annoying traits bae has that sometimes gets on your nerves. 
SPILL!!!
  
I don't mind going first. I'm "seeing" someone and his would be 

1. Being Mr Nice Guy. As in, God loves a cheerful-giver and all that, but when everyone (read chics) knows that you're a cheerful giver and begins to treat you like their personal ATM machine, then they're playing with MY money and it gets on MY nerves. LOL. 

2. Social media. Nah, I really just can't with this one. I don't want to get started on him and social media. If I start I wouldn't stop but suffice it to say it gets on my last nerves!!!!!


Haha! So that's mine, share yours with me. And oh, what advise would you give this poor girl who's in love with a gbeborun?

17 comments:

  1. T please introducing Me to your boo. Joking o. My boyfriend's own is snoring and telling unnecessary lies. It's his lying that makes me doubt that I will marry him if he proposes. I love him but he lies too much

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    1. Lmao@snoring,snoring is not a biggie now,haba anon. Lol

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    2. You might end up being a snorer too....don't knock that. The lying part I cant condone....

      www.pynk360.com

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    3. lol @ unnecessary lies. What will make a man lie? Is he trying to make you think he is what he is not? Or is he a cheat?

      Peace.

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  2. Drinking my tea as I await comments.

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  3. Lol... I also had a cheerful giver bf, but all dat ended with marriage.. so T don't worry once ur "married" then it will be YOUR money for real for real.

    Bobo can wake u up at midnight to fix him somtin to eat.. dat just burns me up.
    Dnt bother sending him a mssg on bbm or whatsapp. U might not be getting any replies @ all.
    There's a whole lot, but let's stop here!

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  4. My husband is perfect jare.....spins good hair and walks away.....

    www.pynk360.com

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    1. Rachel Roy is on Thelma Thinks...Omg

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    2. Kai!!! I love pynk360😘😘😍

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  5. Abi they say love conquers all... since ur in love with him, then no qualms.. BTW tell him to go get himself a job.. dats basically wat u should b worried abt
    As for d other, no bae yet so lemme sit n read comments!

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  6. He is very bad in bed and unfortunately he is proud so he won't try to make amends and believe me I've tried. Most girls beg for oral sex but I run away from it bc by the time he finishes I'm always in pains. I love him but I wish he can just listen and try to change.

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    1. lol. Does he bite during oral sex?

      Eya. Pele.

      Peace

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  7. The lectures... He's older and wiser and well, I'm younger so sometimes I say/do something silly or "unwise" and he launches into these lectures which aren't so bad cos you learn but they're long and I stop listening like mid way through cos the message was probably passed in the first few sentences. I now come away feeling like a child(which I hate).

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  8. Girl. Join your man in the hunt for a job. When he gets a job, all the faggish behavior would end.

    As for my babe:
    1. Being over paranoid about cheating.
    2. Too clumsy

    Peace

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