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Keeping Wife No.2 Away. (Justifiable or Nah?)

So ladies, what would you do if the man you've been married to for some years, started life with, struggled with, invested in, built a home with, have children with, comes and says he's taking wife number two?

So I was just heard about something that happened not so long ago. This lady's husband wanted to marry wife number two and one day in the gathering of some women she actually shared this, albeit casually. Apparently she had resigned herself to having a co-wife. 

One of the women there was aghast; "HOW? What wife? Husband that you suffered with? Hell Nooo! In fact, let him marry her, with her own two legs she will leave that marriage". 

And so it happened that the new wife was brought and a big wedding party was thrown. However less than three months later the new wifey packed her things and left. And that ended that. 

When asked later what happened, it turned out that from the minute hubby married wife number two they were never able to consummate the marriage. Apparently anytime he was in her presence, no matter what she tried to do he would never to able to have an erection, not once, not even a semi erection. He would be limp as rotten vegetable. So after a few months she packed her things and left. 

Yes, wife number 1 later went to that friend who promised her the woman would leave on her own and together they went somewhere and did something

My question is, was it justifiable? Ladies would you do just about anything to keep your home and your marriage? I can't blame the woman to be honest but I'd really love to know what you think. 



    Is it "justifiable"? I honestly can't applaud or recommend the "somewhere" and "something" but... I think it serves Mr. Olojukokoro right for stepping out on his wife... lol

    For the second question, I won't do "just about anything" to save my marriage. I will do all in my power within reason to save the marriage but I won't sell my soul to the devil or allow one smelly old someborri touch my body parts or go to any "somewhere"(that's not a church) to do any unsavoury "something". Life is not that hard and there so much more to life than marriage.

    1. What Sunshine said.

      Anything God cannot give me or sustain should go. I ain't going diabolical for anything on earth...Never

    2. Abi, I totally agree with sunshine on this. Some men go too far sha

  2. This is deep. So wife 1 jazzed her husband's D??? If it was me thats enough reason to send wife 1 packing. I cant trust her anymore. It means in collaboration with diabolical powers they have the ability to control me. How do I know she didnt jazz me to marry her in the first place. She is gone!

    I think women should do everything reasonable in their power to save their marriage. Evil, diabolical, wicked acts do not count as reasonable.

    Wife1's actions cannot be justified. In no circumstance should a man's D be played with!!!!


    1. Lol...

      So, its you that brought another woman into our matrimonial home that can be trusted abi? You collaborated with a strange woman to spoil my happiness and break my heart. How do I know wife 2 didn't jazz you to marry her? Plus, a man's D should not be played with but a woman's heart, emotions and sanity can be played with okwaya? Issokay..

    2. hahahahahahahaha @ playing with the D. Kon this D they u important ooo

    3. Spot on Sunshine! Exactly my kinda reasoning. Only men can't be right all d time ni

  3. Some people take life and marriage too damn serious. Some women have new wife killed or maimed. New wife is lucky. The marriage was annulled and she walked out, with limbs and life intact.

    This is part of the black market justice system. Pure sorcery, it is. It's common. But it is not something I would do. She should come and reduce work for me. If she is into sorcery, I will leave the man to her. That is something I will not dabble into. Let him suffer. She should just leave me and my children alone. Unless, she wants us taken out.


  4. Lols,so wife No 2 didn't marry him for love (aka for better or worse)? Men sef,now that wife No 2 left,did u die?
    So now,hes shopping for wife No 3 and the cycle is meant to continue?


  5. I see you Thelma, stop lifting stories from F..

    1. I see you F...ter. I'm sure I didn't break any rule but your caution is duly noted.

  6. Moral of the story: don't be wife No.2

  7. What sunshine said.
    No time....

  8. Mine was done through prayer, for moments when he was with another woman. It wasn't funny when the situation extended to me, the lawful wife. We ended up going to the hospital to treat erectile dysfunction. I had to pray again for God's mercy ooo. Spiritual things will always overshadow the physical, whether it's a baby in one village or God Almighty.


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