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We All Just Want To Be Loved!

Caption this...

That's one needy girlfriend... LOL. 

When I saw this photo on @instablog9ja I wasn't sure what to think, really. 

Among the many thoughts that crossed my mind, a realization stood out. Everybody longs to be desired and loved. It's a universal thing. 

Even in dark times there's one thing I've been grateful for; I've experienced love. That kind of love where someone puts you first, makes you a priority, does everything in their capacity to make you happy. That kind of love. I swear sometimes I feel like the luckiest girl in the world. I know many of us have been loved, but I do not take mine for granted, especially because I know what it feels like to not be loved...

I pray we all experience that kind of unconditional-unadulterated-selfless love, it's the most beautiful thing ever. 

But then again you might ask who love don epp? LOLZ. So I'll ask, if God said right now, My child, tell me ONE thing you desire and it will be done, what would you ask for?


  1. Help me or rather, remind me to use my sense always. LOL. One more thing...Love.

  2. A big fat positive pregnancy test would definitely be it for me!!

    Happy Sunday everyone!!!

    1. From your mouth to God's ears. May you get that which you desire. Amen.

    2. God is still in the business of performing miracles. You will get that big fat positive soon IJN Amen!

    3. Just said a prayer for you, Happy Sunday.

      Prior to reading your article, I probably would have said something along the lines of reasonable development for Nigeria. After reading your article, my prayers are in tandem with the gist of the post.

    4. Hello Chrisyinks
      please how old are you again?
      I've being crushing on you since like my love for Thelma's blog began.
      What say yea can i be more than a crushing friend?

    5. Hi Anonymous. Don't think I have mentioned my age previously, nonetheless it's 26. And you were keeping the crushing to yourself for this long..... God is seeing you in 3D. Well, it feels nice to be admired, thank you. Per friendship, mail Thelma, she has my email address.

    6. Awwwww i'm wayy older but its all good,i'll keep in touch.

  3. Hmmmmm... hope they don't make babies!!

  4. An upgrade from this job of mine.

  5. Financial breakthrough for my dad for me.

  6. Total healing for my mum and a promotion for me

  7. Love,upliftment, breakthrough and favours like never before.

  8. I know I asked more than one. Lol. Selfish me.

  9. A new job. but between i thought mad people don't know what kissing is?

  10. Blessings & favour in my career

  11. Enlargement of me and hubby's coast

  12. Seeing the title of this post, my immediate though was "we all just need Jesus". Having read it's content, I'll say that Selfless Love can be a truly beautiful thing to give and receive.

    The one thing I need right now is that financial breakthrough that'll make everything else begin to come together.


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Just checking in to sign the register. Lol. It's been a very busy week and it looks like it might be an even busier weekend. I was hoping to get some writing done when I got to the airport yesterday but I even almost missed my flight. It was hopeless trying to do any work on the plane as it was bumpy af, and this toddler behind me wouldn't stop screaming in piercing shrieks like he was being exorcised. 
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swag, but he didn't seem to notice me. (I'm a nerd but a sassy one
if I say so myself).  So oneday I decided to take it to another level..
After listening to a song "IF YOU LOVE SOMEBODY TELL THEM THAT YOU
LOVE THEM and watching the season film of The Secret Life of
American Teenagers. ..when Amy Jeugerns mum told her "you are only
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