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Friday, 10 June 2016

"I Love You Titi Lai!". Sunshine's Heartfelt Tribute To Kabuoy On Her Birthday.

Dear sister…

It is hard to say how much I love you

You might not believe it especially since I fight with you

But no matter how much we quarrel, I still adore you

Even when we don’t speak to each other, I like you

For a lot of good things in my life

I am grateful to you

I hope one day you can see through into my heart

And realize how much I am fond of you


And so 

As one more year in your life goes by

Remember to be happy instead of heaving a sigh

Think about the things that you have to achieve

Don’t abandon the dreams you weave

In your life may you always have your way

Happy birthday to my dearest sister, for you I will always pray



My sister is a gem, like, an actual gem. She’s the perfect example of beauty, brains and character. The funny thing about Kabuoy is, she used to be a not so good person. Like, we couldn’t have a conversation without turning it into a fight and boy did we fight! We kept the longest malice and she was great at it. She’d just x you from her memory and the thing would be paining me. She used to be real saucy and annoying you know, that child that fought with everyone, daddy, mummy, sisters, friends, etc without consequence but she always had the best friends. Those quiet girls who took all her sh*t and always begged her to be their friends again. I honestly couldn’t imagine marrying someone like her back then.


Fast forward a few years and the story is so different now, its hard to put today’s Kabouy beside the Kabuoy described above. She’s literally the sweetest and most humble of the both of us now. She has no appetite or energy to stomach any kind of fight that lasts more than one day. She’s very pleasant, a fantastic cook (like seriously!). Whenever an argument or discussion is escalating into a fight, she just finds a way to immediately turn it into a joke and we laugh and move on. On many days, I can’ imagine the Kabuoy I live with now is the same one I lived with my final year in school.


Over the past 3 years, she has changed into this absolutely beautiful woman, inside and out, she’s wiser, still intelligent (azzin efiko levels o) and a woman of God (when Kabuoyprays ehn!). I am so very proud of the wonderful woman you’ve become (even though I have somehow become the bad child…lol) and boy am I ever proud to be your sister. I’m grateful for all the time we have had together, our fights, our tears, our laughs, our trips, etc. I am grateful that I have such a strong ally, giving me sound advice like all the time, I’m grateful that even with all our roborebe, we still look up to each other, I’m grateful that you’re the one person who pushes me every time to be better, to aspire to bigger things, to demand respect and basically stand up for myself. Thank you for believing in me even when I don’t believe in myself.


I love you so very much sis, I wish you could see into my heart to know exactly how much. My prayer for you this day is that God would continue to mould you into the woman he’s making you into, that you continue to walk in the path that He has set for you, that you will soar high and continue to excel in all that you do, that you continue to grow in wisdom and knowledge, that God will in his own time give you that man that will cherish and compliment you in the best possible way. Dear sis, you are a star, a shining light and you will keep shining.


I love you titi lai!




Poems culled from


Happy birthday Kabuoy, we wish you the very best. Me I don't know what else to say after Sunshine has written this songs of Solomon. All I can say is that you girls need to stop making the rest of us jealous. Ahn ahn kilode!?



  1. Awwww... happy birthday kabuoy, I wish you happiness, and peace of mind. Remain blessed sister girl!

  2. Happy birthday darling...God bless you abundantly.


  4. Thanks Tee. I wasn't sure you would see the mail in time to post it. You're the best!

  5. Happy birthday Kabuoy! May God bless you.

  6. Happy birthday Kabouy.Live long and prosper.

  7. happy birthday kabouy ... may God's favour never be found lacking in your life ... cheers

  8. I wish you all the happiness and joy this world has to offer. May this your special day be all for which you hope and splendid in every way.Happy Birthday Kabuoy

  9. Happy birthday Kabuoy! May u find more love among family and friends.

    (*whispers* where are we turning up?)

  10. Happy birthday Kabuoy. I wish you all the best in life.

  11. Happy birthday Kabuoy. May your days be like the spring; sparkling and everflowing. Amen.

  12. Happy birthday kabuoy... So jealous of your love...
    Thelma wia iz awa hot seat?

  13. Happy birthday Kabuoy. God bless you plenty

  14. Happy birthday kabuoy. Best wishes

  15. It's Kabuoy's birthday already? Happy birthday girl, I admire you a lot even though we've never spoken and you don't even know I exist on this

    Meanwhile Sunshine this your description of Kabuoy sounds like you're measuring how many yards of wife material she is, I'd say 10,000 yards?

  16. Happy Birthday Kabuoy!God Bless you

  17. Pls, tell them, Thelma. But it's all good. Great to know you're such a darling. God bless you and all you do. You're my son's birthday mate. He was 6 yesterday. Happy Belated birthday! I hope you had a blast? :)

  18. Sunshine!!! See as you just wan open my Yansh for TTB!!! Loool!

    Thanks Big sis!!!! I love you 😘😘😘😍😍😍

    Thanks everyone for the wishes!!! God bless you!!!😘❤️😍

    1. Huh? Sunshine is the big sis and not you?

    2. She is the big sis ooo!!! 😂😂😂

  19. Happy birthday kabuoy! God bless you and keep you.

  20. Lol@Lauryn.

    Happy belated birthday kabouy....many more years.

  21. Happy Birthday Kabouy. God bless your new age.

  22. happy belated birthday girlie O.

  23. Happy birthday Kabouy, I dont know you but seems like i do from this blog, Keep on shinning.


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