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Sunday, 24 July 2016

A Very Heartbreaking Account Of Domestic Violence.













WTF did I just read!? 

What I don't understand is how someone can endure this for so long. I have a question for DV victims, isn't the beating painful? The kicking, the flogging, the injuries... Are they not painful? Like, even if mentally or emotion you cannot leave, e no dey pain una for body? Is the pain not enough reason to make one run away? I just don't get it... I sincerely pray this lady finds healing. Her mind and soul must be severely battered by now. 



Culled, @make_or_breakup Instagram. 




28 comments:

  1. Either this is a story from a very creative mind or the guy is indeed a psycho. How exactly do u get razor to cut off someone's nipple? Who/what influences these things?

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    1. Same thoughts here but I have a case close to this except there was no razor involved.
      Had to help the woman escape, her cries at 2am was enough to empty my pockets. She is safe and happy now.
      Nobody should stay in a violent situation.

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    2. 50 shades of grey influences these things

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    3. Is this a joke?

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    4. No darling. Maybe 50 Shades of Black or 50 Shades of wickedness but not my 50 Shades of Grey. Have the read the whole trilogy?

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    5. Sasha you read the 3 of them!!! πŸ˜³πŸ˜³πŸ˜³πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

      Lobatan! The first one almost destroyed me!!! πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ you now read the 3!!! πŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ

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    6. Lol,biko if u knw anyone who has the 4th one,pls holla at me. Heard she's writing another focusing on the life of Christian Grey...*excited much*

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    7. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
      Get thee behind me Sasha!!!! Sprinkles holy water on you!!! πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

      πŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ for your mind. Loool!

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    8. In the end (sometime in ur future), you wld wish for something similar. Not the pain but the pleasure behind the pain. I think I shld comment anonymously...lol

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    9. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    10. Kabuoy you read that book? LOL. You're brave. After all the reviews on it I've been very skeptical reading it.

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  2. This is a very stale story o Thelma. In surprised you're just seeing this.

    The first time I read this story... I felt like reaching for the writer through my phone and giving her a big shake!!! You know that kind of Shake that would set all your faculties in place and restore you back to default setting(God's original plan)


    I felt so bad that some people are in such horrible situations and they honestly and sincerely believe that they deserved what they are getting and their life is that worthless.

    A goat shouldn't go through half of what this woman went through... Not to talk more of a woman!!!!

    Today as I Reread the story... And I got to where she was asking God for a sign... I actually laughed out loud. But the truth is when your self worth and esteem is non-existent, the way you think/view situations would be very faulty.

    This is really sad. I wish I can reach out to people like this and help them in anyway that I can.

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  3. ++ I sincerely hope someone made up this story. I pray it is not real and this didn't happen to a human being like me

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  4. Seriously! I have no sympathy for this lady, none at all. She walked into that situation herslef. You know you're beautiful so it's not like you are 100% sure no man wants you, yet you stayed in such a relationship for years? I will never understand this.

    Why are you even leaving with a man that isn't your fiancΓ© much less a husband? So much so that he beats you if you don't serve his food on time. This doesn't even make any sense.

    Infact,the more I think about it, the surer I am that the story is made up cos it's too ridiculous to be true. What on earth!

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    1. Your first paragraph says it all...NO SYMPATHY...Very foolish somebody,because I won't call this love...TNHW

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    2. No sympathy for the lady involved. After leaving him for the first time you still went back to him when he called you. To me this is pure stupidity and to think you had to bail him out with your money and

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  5. The lady and the man are a mentally deranged pair. 6 years of perpetual hell on earth, and you're telling beelzebub in human form to speed up marriage plans? You went back after you've been ridiculed, dumped and replaced? You're asking GOD for a sign while even performing illegal wifey duties under HIS Nose (the obvious insult)? I'm almost certain GOD laughed. Some people truly deserve the pain they get, 100%.

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  6. Like sunshine said, I feel no sympathy at all, absolutely none. I hissed at the end cos her story hasn't ended, she'll still go back and maybe next time she won't come out alive. That will be her sign. Death! Namsenz

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  7. This is a rude and crude reminder to us parents. We need to instill good morale, confidence and kindness in our children - both male and female. We need to teach them how to be dependent on themselves and not on any other, be it partner, spouse or whoever. We need to teach them good standards so they do not have to allow bull crap from any shitty, mentally disturbed animal in human skin. We need to teach them self-esteem; the fact that they are more than a mere sex object and the fact that when someone leaves their life, it simply means more room for a new, better person.

    -F

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    1. Spot on πŸ‘Œ
      Correcting ds tins start from the upbringing. Aw can a man be so heartless, sb born of a woman. Well, I know it's possible he ddnt receive d right home training, it cud as well be d overbloated ego of some guys.

      And aw can a lady feel so worthless of herself?
      Nawaooo

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  8. I read the post again and again and I FAINTED out of shock when I read that she prayed for a sign from God.

    SIGN???????Even Satan is not happy with your dullness ma.

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  9. Is dat Wale i see? Our same old Wale if he is the one, Welcome back and i have misssseeeeedddddddd your comments so much.
    After reading this all i could say is Lord have mercy. Please ladies let us all work on our esteem, once we know what we are worth we would know, no man cant treat us like dirt. As a matter of fact, its better to be alone and happy rather to be in such an unhealthy relationship. Worst case is the psyhco of a man in d story, his Waterloo is definetely just around the corner...

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  10. You guys are harsh here. Its not as simple as it seems.

    The women that go through these kinda things are manipulated mentally. They have been made to believe that their future, their lives and happiness is tied to the man. Its kinda the same thing when you are stuck on drugs, of course you know its bad for you but the way it makes you feel is what keeps you there. The men brain wash them into thinking no one will love them more and life will be worse without them.

    The orientation, back ground, up bringing, exposure and other things play a major factor in how women fall for such. So dont be too quick to judge the women, its more of mental bondage than physical bondage.

    Peace.

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  11. Welcome back Uncle Wale.

    Domestic violence is real. This case above requires a beain reset.

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  12. Oh my goodness! WARRISDIS? Ds babe ne'er had self esteem from the outset. A stingy man I can manage (if I've to), an unfaithful man I can endure (if I've to), but a woman beater? Mbanu!! God knows dat.
    I really pray for healing on ds ladies and for dem to be able to pick up and start allover.

    Ds just reminds me again of how very important our formative years (very young/tender age) is. Train up a child in d way dat he shud go,and he'll not depart from it. Self confidence and self esteem shud really be imbibed in the girlchild. #LordhaveMercy

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