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Dear Thelma, (What Does It Mean?)

Good morning Tee pls help me post. Last night and a few nights ago I dreamt I was getting married. Last night's was so detailed, I was a bit delayed and my sis was rushing me to get dressed that everybody was waiting. I eventually got dressed and went to the church. My wedding dress was beautiful and everybody was just staring. I know it sounds cute and everything but I've heard that dreams have meanings and that seeing yourself in wedding dress or getting married is a sign of death. Please has anyone else heard about this too? I am single and not planning to wed anytime soon. I don't think about weddings much neither did I watch anything that had to do with weddings before I slept. I'm just wondering sha. Thank you. 


  1. Nothing in this life denote 'death'except death itself. So please don't let one simple dream put you down.
    Get on with your life Abeg. This is the 21st century. We'll all die one day, We just don't know when(thats if suicide isn't in your plans).

    If your foundation is build on the Christian life, then pray to Jesus for protection and guidance.

    1. Exactly, if you are a Christian, just say a simple prayer.

      Also, when we sleep, our subconscious has a way of cogitating over what really means the most to us. So next time you experience such dreams, it might be a insight into what you innately desire for your wedding, so put it down on paper when you wake up.

  2. It means ur bf wld soon propose to u..

    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
      Exactly what I thought! Invite us ooo!

  3. A very sad day for me...but in all I give thanks to God.j

    1. Hope you feel better. This too shall pass, keep being strong.


    2. Pray to God to cancel every negative meaning the dream could connote and make fulfill every positive significance then take your mind off it.


    3. God works in mysterious ways to perform his wonders...

    4. I hope you're doing ok ma'am?

    5. J I'm so sorry about what's making you feel down. I know how difficult it can be to give thanks when it feels like there's not much to be thankful for, still it's the best option we have. It also makes way for brighter days and better things. Hugs luv.

    6. J!!! You'll be fine in Jesus name. It is well *hugs*

    7. Glad to see you back on the blog commenting. Sad that you had a bad day, perhaps if you could enlighten the blog (anonymously or with your identity) on your situation we could put our heads to assist – two heads is often better than one.

  4. It means nothing.. it's just a dream jor!!

  5. Well, it's seems like it's just a dream but then you implied that it was clear and detailed, then it somewhat calls for a reflection. Analyze your stress levels, your worries and desires. Leave nothing out and see if they remotely relate to your dreams (as Chrisyinks implied). Also, reduce your pessimism about dreams that are rumored to cause some sort of calamity. Be positive, rest easy and pray (if you're religious). You'll be fine.

    Stay blessed.


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