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Dear Thelma (Is It Possible For a Good Girl To Be Sooo Good In Bed?)

TTB family Is it possible for a good girl to be so very good in bed? Like extremely skillfully good?

Dont get me wrong, i dont judge. I asked her her body count cos i want to know what am dealing with. I also told her mine. She said she's only slept with 2 people before me and she can even count the number of times she has had sex. We started dating over a year ago but she was saying she's celibate, no sex until marriage etc. I didnt want that but i agreed cos i love her. It was she that suggested we start having sex. Theres no real issue but i'm.confused. 

Sorry to sound raw but when this girl gives me head she does it like a PRO. What am trying to say is she is an expert. I have been with girls n' i've good sex/head but i remove cap for this babe. It takes a lot for me not to nut in her mouth (which she dont mind btw). Ok nau the sex nko? There is no trick she doesnt know. This girl rides me like a porn star. And She know all the different tricks like clenching her vaginal muscles to grip my dick then releasing it. She is very sexual and freaky. Like, she wakes me up in the morning with a bj the nights we sleep together. I am not complaining at all, am having the best sex of my life. But for someone i was considering a future with i have to ask questions. 
       See her body count is not really the issue, is if she actually lied to me. I dunno how wise it is to make a liar the mother of my children. I am not saying she is a liar but is it really possible for somebody who has only 2 past bedmate n claims she has not had sex up to 10 times in her life to be so great in bed? Besides will a good girl comfortably tell you that you can cum in her mouth? Most girls i know dont really like it, even the bad ones sef.
I am sharing this cos i want you to read this and give me your honest opinions. Bless. 


Hmmm, what I know about being that good and uninhibited in bed is that practice makes perfect. If only 2 past lovers and less than ten sexssions is enough practice, I don't know oooo.

What do y'all think?


  1. Sexssions kwa?

    New word in the dictionary?

    1. You asking a girl her body count is as plain as saying 'lie to me baby'. A woman would rather reveal her real age than her real body count, my brother there is football body count like football age. If you leave her the next girl will still lie and might be bad in bed. You better take the better deal amigos.
      A Girl

  2. Mstchewwwwwwww! Later you people say women are the ones that don't know what they want or how it is doing them. I put it to you sir that you don't know how it is doing you.

    Oga Ade should you even be having sex before marriage? What's your business with her body count? What good would that information do you? Now you know and you're still doubting because she's good in bed? How exactly do you want us to help you?

    Well this is my honest opinion: Ask yourself/find out what's important to you... If she possesses the qualities or she qualifies, stop asking questions and marry her. If not, move on.

    Meanwhile you people what is it sef... If a girl is a virgin(obviously inexperienced) you'll say you don't have the patience to start again or teach her. If she's has too many body counts(but very good in bed) you will call her a bad girl, ho, whore, animashaun. If she has few body counts and very good in bed, you'll call her a liar. And say it's impossible. Let's even assume she's lying. Can you handle the truth if she tells you???!!!! Why do you men even bother to ask that question sef???
    What is it sef???!!! Ha! just be annoying somebody early on Thursday morning.

    The babe suppose dey act like learner, maybe you won't be asking us JAMB questions now. 😒😒😒

    1. Hahaha Kabuoy yaf Vex. Tell dem o

  3. Though experience helps, some people are just good when it comes to sex especially ppl with high sex drive. Pleasers will also try more to impress their partner than non pleasers. So your narration above does not necessarily make your GF a liar. Girl may be breaking her back trying to please you in bed and you are here complaining. If she was a lousy lover you will still complain. Kids go to school, attend same classes, taught by same teachers, some will come first, some will come last.

  4. If she no do wahala...If she too do,problem...Guys,what do you really want..'Unsatisfied' bunch!!!TNHW.

  5. I think the guy is a fool. One of all those guys looking for faults where there is none. Looking for the perfect babe they can mold into their standards. The babe should never have broken her celibacy for you. And the fact that you're talking about this to us instead of her makes me wanna puke. So we should detect the lie for you abi... as per we're lie detectors. Mtcheew

  6. I think the guy is a fool. One of all those guys looking for faults where there is none. Looking for the perfect babe they can mold into their standards. The babe should never have broken her celibacy for you. And the fact that you're talking about this to us instead of her makes me wanna puke. So we should detect the lie for you abi... as per we're lie detectors. Mtcheew

  7. I think insulting the guy is uncalled for. As a guy if I'm in his shoes I will ask the same question too.

    1. Because in life we are never satisfied with the TRUTH. If she lied about her body count and pretended in bed too you will CHEAT!!!

    2. @ Anonymous 12:14, Seconded!

      I believe most guys would be pleased to have a lady who is a pro in bed - I would. I feel your concern here is that she may have been promiscuous in the talk to her. Per intending marriage, everyone has a past and some have picked the lessons from their past to make a better present and possibly, the best future, so i'd advice that your decision to marry her shouldn't be primarily hinged on your assessment of her sex skills.

  8. Dear Poster, Have you considered the fact that she might be a good reader and has watched a lot of sexual movies? I don't get it anymore for our African brothers ohh. You has a girl who is slow in bed TROUBLE, now you have a good one in bed, she's too much of a PRO.
    Just so you know =, no one is perfect and the saying that " The way to a man's heart is through the stomach i always beg to differ, cos men like GOOD SEX. Please be happy with what you have and enjoy the moment.

  9. Lmao. This Post is funny and biased.

    "...Dont get me wrong, i dont judge...",


    "...I asked her her body count cos i want to know what am dealing with...". #Judgment


    "...I dunno how wise it is to make a liar the mother of my children..." #Judgment (or not?)


    "...I am not saying she is a liar...".

    El Oh El.

    Well, you've successfully judged her completely with these words but you still trying to act "non-judgmental". Ain't working, as you can see. It's this kind of attitude that makes alot of girls keep glued lips about their past from their spouses. The wriggling in and out of judgmental statements is nauseating.

    1. Let me El Oh El my own under your comment. I no fit shout.

      Anyway, she might just have watched enough porn and that's helped her in her previous relationships.
      You better love her more for learning fast

  10. This matter sha get as e be oh! Pls Mr. Man, close mouth and enjoy good sex.

  11. i cant use my energy to type when i am supposed to be sleeping sef. just wofe her already, thousands would die for your position.

    1. Habibi, I would like to meet you, where in Nigeria are you based?


  12. It seems he has never heard of the rule of 2. For those who decide to have extra-marital sex, it seems counter-intuitive (even border line hypocritical) to ask for your partner's body count, ... and ironic to expect an honest response. *shrugs*

    1. Nice comment.

      All I can say is : MTCHEEEEW (yes, in capitals).


  13. Wen I saw d topic I was like hell yeah! There are books, dia's d internet, etc etc etc
    But after reading d post? Lol Amarozikwa m


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