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It's 9pm. 

I woke up this morning at 5.30. Sat in bed reflecting or whatever until 6. Exercised from 6 to 6.45 and by 7.30 I headed for the university. It's a 30 or 40 minutes walk but I barely ever notice because almost everyone else is walking and the weather is awesome. Actually it's freaking cold, bitingly cold, but awesome. Awesome because after walking for 40 minutes there's not a bead of sweat on my forehead and my makeup is still as flawless as it was when I put it on. I get to the university at a few minutes past 8am, classes start at 8 and I'm a few minutes late but it's ok. 

It's 9pm and I just got back a few minutes ago. My classes ended some thirty minutes ago. I've had no real food or rest all day but I think this is the happiest I've been in a while.  

Please people, send me posts ooooo! My beautiful readers, you know you don't have to wait until there's a prize attached to contribute to the blog abi?

But if you do, then #WriteRight is still ongoing. I'm waiting to hear from you. 

I didn't think I was going to be so busy but I took up an extra course and that has me in class from 5pm-8pm. My classes are 8am-11am, 11.30am-3pm and then the 5pm class. Those two hours in between are barely enough time for me to catch my breath and go look for something to eat. Plus there's the factor of preparing for a class before hand as the classes are interactive and you MUST contribute and as I don't want to be looking like an olodo, when I'm not in class I spend my time preparing for class. To think that I've not even visited Bella Naija or even instagram in a week! That's how bad it is. 

So please, don't abandon me 😰😫😒. This is only temporary, but in the meantime please keep visiting and if you've got something you'd like to share, send it and I will post. 

Ps, my line is off so if you want to reach me please send a mail. Thank you. 

Does anyone have anything to say? Anything at all... πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜πŸ˜‰

Say something jor, the blog is dry! πŸ˜’


  1. I want to say u are really beautiful and all the best.

  2. Lol... even if we say something, when will you have time to approve the comment? It is well jare..

    I think it's awesome that you're in school, I was still thinking about my masters on my way from work this evening. Like play like play, it's been 5 years since I left school and I don't have extra pali to my B.Sc. na so so work work.. I need to get serious and settle on a course to study before life gets on the way of that too...

    By the way, you look fabulous in that pictureπŸ˜ŠπŸ˜πŸ˜—πŸ˜™

    Also, do you mind telling us what you're studying in Kenya?

    1. You're so right. What time will I approve it? I posted this at 9pm yesterday and I'm just approving at 4pm today. I'm not even making any excuses, just bear with me. Extend my apologies to Kabuoy. Anytime I haven't posted comments and I remember her my heart starts racing. Lol

    2. πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

      I'll let her know...

    3. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

      I love you nonetheless Thelma 😍😍😍
      Stalking you on Facebook! You look good babe! God bless you!!!! xxx

  3. Hallos Thelma, I can see you are doing well, I am curious what course are you studying?

    1. Three courses that will last for only weeks. Just need to learn some new skills. (So not masters of anything like that).

  4. cheers Tee
    we will keep the blog alive from now on.
    you have got nothing to worry about.

    just study hard and smarter and make TTF proud

  5. Thelma you look good by the way.
    I have been down with malaria for some days now but thank God I am getting better.
    I need friends on the Mainland (Male or Female)
    Tee you should consider doing a hook up post soon..

    1. Thanks LA. Please get better soon. What part of the mainland are you on? Mail me let's talk about that post.

    2. Thanks. I sent you a message on IG

    3. Hiya, Kabuoy and I live on the mainland, we could catch a movie sometime and just hang... plus we need friends too... lol.


  6. Thelma you really look good. Pretty face! Enjoy your stay in Kenya.

  7. I just want to say that I'm frustrated and stressed out.My project work has finally gotten to me. 3rd time my supervisor is cancelling my appointment with him.

    1. Favor is all you need dear! Pele! It would soon be over!!!!!

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  9. "... I think this is the happiest I've been in a while"

    It shall be permanent.

  10. Well done Thelma! Best wishes bebe and take care of you, try to eat in between.

  11. I'm loving this. Self development. You inspire, Thelma!!!

  12. does anyone has anything to say?.. yes but u said it. the blog is a little dry. Enjoy your stay dear. knowledge is power.


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