I need advice from my fellow ttbv,
I was married for 5 years and the marriage ended in late 2014 due to infertility. The story on that marriage is one I hate discussing.I had panic attack.
I started dating another guy in March this year. He wants to take the relationship to another level but there is a serious issue on ground.
the guy has twin boys with another woman. The twin are 5yrs. The mother of the children is not married. The guy said the lady wants marriage but he will never marry her due to reason best known to him. He rented house for this lady and her children. Pays the children's school fees and maid allowance. He is responsible for the up keep of the children.
I called off the relationship last month. It was a difficult decision for me but I can not stand blocking another woman's chance of marrying the father of her children. Their discussion shows she loves and need the man to marry her. He has been my sole provider since then because I work in a private company where salary has not been paid since March this year. The man has been pressurizing to have me back. I have made up my mind. My friends think I am stupid. They feel I should marry the man as long as he did not marry the other woman officially. One is even using 2face who left his baby mama's and married Annie as an example.
I sincerely need honest and sincere advice. If you are in my shoe. what will you do?. If I am your sister or friend. What will you tell me. Did I tell you that I am in my late thirties?