A friend is married. She married the guy because he helped her financially while in University. During NYSC, she got pregnant for the guy and to avoid family shame. A hurried traditional and white wedding was done before the pregnancy became visible.
Its five years now and 2 kids in the marriage. She still does not feel love for her husband but rather for her first man who is also married. She swears her first cheating on her husband with her lover resulted in her last and first male child (7 months). Her husband is staying in Lagos while the lady is staying at Ekiti due to work. The parents in-law also stay in Ekiti. The issue now is that the lover is insisting she tell her husband the true father of her child as he (lover) will want to train his child in his roof. Please be informed that her lover is married and still waiting on the lord for a child with his wife. The lover has been taking care of her very well since the birth of the child to the extent of giving her a car last month which she lied to her husband that it belongs to her elder brother. She is in a fix. Should she tell her husband, What happens to her after the confession. Should she run away and with her children and abandon both men. The lover is already happily married.
My people. Please don't curse her because she is not in a good frame of mind at the moment. I told her I will post his here and given her the blog id. Kindly help her by giving her sincere advice.
The only circumstance under which she she should tell her husband is if she is ready to exit her marriage. As for her "lover" YIMU to him. She should please ignore him, he is a termite, he only wants to destroy. Yeye man. Unless he's planning to marry her as wife number 2 or leave his current wife for her, he should GTFOH. For what shall it profit a woman to destroy her life and her marriage to please a selfish man whose life shall continue unperturbed?