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Hello good people. I just got back from my morning run and while on the trail I had some random thoughts run through my mind. I'd share them with you. 

-We see quite a number of twins marrying twins. Is it really possible that both pairs of twins are in love with each other, or do they just seek out a compatible pair of twins of the opposite sex and marry them just to fulfill a twin fantasy? Or isn't it likely that one twin is in love with another twin, and they hook their twins up with each other so that they can all just get married? Besides isn't siblings marrying siblings like an errr, abomination in some places? 

-Are those tweets circulating the Internet really about Ebuka Obi Uchendu? Like is he really gay? Did Cynthia really catch him during their honeymoon sexting with his gay lover? Did his family really give her the go ahead to date other men since their son is gay? Or is it about another couple entirely, who's someone smiling happily that someone else is getting the heat while their secrets stay hidden? Or is the whole thing even one big lie? How is Cynthia coping with this public humiliation/ridicule/mess/horror barely days after having a baby? 😟

-Just asking ladies, can you marry a bisexual man? (The thought actually doesn't freak me out, provided I know before we get married, I think...). Err, we all pray for a loving, caring and totally faithful husband, but things are happening these days my sisters. So I'm wondering; would you rather the hubs cheat with a guy (πŸ™ˆ) or another woman. Which would hurt less? 

-What is Genevieve Nnaji doing right now?

-Isn't religion man-made? How are we so sure it's real? Why do we believe that heaven and hell exist when no one has ever seen it, after all we were just "told". Yeah it's in the bible but the bible was written by people. Is it really fair that someone never asked to be born, was thrust into this world and then given a set of rules to live by, and then gets punished by fire for the rest of eternity if they refuse to live by those rules, when they didn't ask to be here in the first place? 
       Is there really life after death? Is reincarnation real? The bible says after death comes judgement, what happens to those who were reincarnated, were they judged and allowed to come back to the world, or they were not judged at all?

Sigh... So many musings. 

Please pick one or some or all and discuss. Let's unravel this together. 😊


  1. I'm done with 'religion', anyone that wants to kill him or herself because of it, na them sabi. I freaking annoys me Mehn.
    I have a friend that bears a Muslim name but a Christian and when discussions involves religion she still feel like she's more special being a Christian(thereby castigating the former), I don't understand, but u are bearing a Muslim name still. Stop confusing everyone. Sigh*

    Since I'm a guy, if my wife cheats on me with a girl... Her punishment is a threesome.

  2. I'll pick the religion question. Nne,believe me that Hell is very real. Was walking out of the church and the heat emanating from the ground was

    On to serious convo,Christ is the end of the law. Anyone who's still operating under old testament laws is OYO (on ur own). If as a long practicing Christian you donno what Love is and the scope of it,you need some deep questioning..

  3. Religion is a sham! If the missionaries didn't tell you there is an almighty that does magic, wud you all have known what God is? Religion shudnt be preached to you, it shud be experienced. Do you need adverts about water quenching thirst if u can simply drink the water and experience it? Believing in Religion whether Christianity, Islam, Hindu is like believing in magic and I don't believe in magic! Pastors know this, they know their healings and fake miracles dont work but since the church is making them quick cash, they continue. Wake up ppl.

  4. Thelma, it isn't Cynthia that caught Ebuka, it was another lady. Her husband and Ebuka are friends and Ebuka was one of his groomsmen. Apparently, Ebuka is the groom's gay partner.

  5. Can i marry a bisexual as long as i know beforehand? HELL NO

  6. People sometimes have doubts about religion but my faith and conviction keep me grounded when such thoughts arise. I'm a Christian so I believe in God and his word, I strive to do His will and make sure I stay focused on worshipping Him and not my pastor. On marrying a bisexual man, I know the reality is things are happening but it doesn't have to be my reality,I can't live with it at all.
    A Girl

  7. I'm really sad about the ebuka/gay gist. Ebuka and his wife have been the centre of cyber hate and bullying from the moment their engagement was announced.
    I really feel sorry that they have to go through this bullshit just days after welcoming their 1st child- a time of great joy for most people.
    From what I gather.''s the purported gay partner- yoye banks whose wife's family is in the know. The wife allegedly said her husband's gay partner was one of his groomsmen who just got married early this people put 2 and 2 and assumed it was Ebuka.
    Ebuka and Cynthia come from very traditional igbo families.
    I'll advise them to stay of social media completely and revel in the joy of the birth of their newborn.

    1. Thanks for the clarification Anon. You see why I can't run a gossip blog πŸ˜’πŸ˜?

  8. Alright
    On the twin ish; I think it is very rare to see "four" twins that got married because "they" were in love.

    On the bisexual ish - Come on I can't imagine my boo going down there with the same dick he put in a man's ass so he better cheat on me with a girl so that I will know it is a girl that I am contending with instead of a man so nah it is not my reality and won't be my reality.

    Hmmmm on the religion ish - I only believe in a supreme being.
    I don't know why people worship their fellow human beings.

    Anyway ndi igbo kwuru okwu si na - onye aghoburu ka agbaa

  9. bisexuality(or any deviation from being straight) is an anomaly. The world can evolve all it wants but these pervesions remain what they are, anomalies. It is very unnatural to suggest that the rest of the world should in the light of the evolution condone them, and the open defendants of those with such sexual orientations should be put in a spaceship (filled with combustibles just to make sure) and shot into space to better the world.

  10. If I were Cynthia, and I knew Ebuka isn't gay, at least to the best of my knowledge, I wouldn't be bothered.
    A lot people gossip too much and a lot have the intent of pure concocted slander. I've seen it myself to get sad about it.

    God and religion isn't a lie. And if it be so, and we found out at the end of life, a truly good Christian (I'm sure about Christianity is about), would have nothing to lose, but if we lived life recklessly, then there might be a lot to lose.

  11. If I were Cynthia, and I knew Ebuka isn't gay, at least to the best of my knowledge, I wouldn't be bothered.
    A lot people gossip too much and a lot have the intent of pure concocted slander. I've seen it myself to get sad about it.

    God and religion isn't a lie. And if it be so, and we found out at the end of life, a truly good Christian (I'm sure about Christianity is about), would have nothing to lose, but if we lived life recklessly, then there might be a lot to lose.

    1. Did Clare loan you her old phone? πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

    2. Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha! Kabuoy you have killed me.I was also wondering before I read your comment.clare is surely a shiafu gifa

    3. LOL! It's blogger o! I would try several times to comment and then find out it duplicates.

    4. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ @ Bloggittup! She's truly a 'shiafu gifa'

      Now I know it's you πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‚ manchin!!! Chai! Blogittup πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ you wie noh Jew somebody! Walahi!


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