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Saturday, 5 November 2016

Shocking! Viral Video of Young Man Beating Up His Girlfriend While People Watch.


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This video, that has since gone viral after been posted on Facebook earlier today, is unbelievably shocking.

First of all, there’s a man beating a woman who his apparently his girlfriend. The woman is on the floor and begging profusely while still getting blows on her back.

Secondly, there are a number of people that actually walk past and walk over a man beating a woman without batting an eyelid.

Thirdly, and most appalling, there are people standing around about watching the couple. Some are making comments in the background while another is recording – hence the video that has gone viral.

A student of Ebonyi State University posted the video on her Facebook page and captioned it “Merciful God, see beating, school boyfriend ooo”

It’s sad that things like this still happen all around us and it is even more saddening that a lot of Nigerians have become desensitized to domestic violence. 

Source; Bella Naija. 

I didn't watch the video, don't have the stomach for such. But from the comments is read it was pretty bad. People like this boy should lock up 

16 comments:

  1. speechless...what offence can a lady commit that would be deserving of such violence? why should a lady subject herself to such punishment?

    So many questions....so much needs to be done.

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  2. Good morning Thelma, I just watched the video and it's quite provoking,seems it's not the first time it's happening is why no one made a quick move to rescue her as a lady was even shouting "I tell you say make you leave am".. it's a pity really. This lady needs serious strength from the Lord to be able to leave the man, and as for d man - jail for life is not far from his future if he persists in this behaviour.

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  3. ...wait o! Was she saying "baby I'm sorry" on top that beating? Hmmmmm.

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    1. That's what I'm asking too. I need to be sure before I start to talk.

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  4. Whose son is this?
    Whose brother is this?
    The entire family shld be shamed
    He should be rusticated from that school. Anything short and I know this country abhors violence..

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  5. I imagined my self there and having hot oil within my reach.I would have poured it on him I swear...I pray the babe gathers strength and leave because I once had a friend like that..The idiot would beat her up and in the next 20 minutes you hear moans from her room,and am always like WTF..Don't be shocked if tomorrow they both dress up and go to church together smiling like nothing happened..TNHW

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  6. On top of his broke ass. These two are doomed. This girl needs some serious help house.

    My husband woozed me a slap for something that was his fault. A few years after he is still paying for his deed.

    Much as i do know he is a good man and father who allowed his demons get the best of him that night, I still have not forgiven him. I have tried and I sumply have not been able to get past the shock, pain and trauma.

    Left him for 3 good months to stew in his own mess. Billed the hell out of his ass for every piece of item that I bought and did not buy. Stopped every single form of support I was rendering in the house (significantly important).

    Till date I do not try to do anything. He misses that....It is Just a reminder that the very next time he tries that shit with me again.

    There will be war. My Father and mother did not spend the better part of their lives training me for one niggur to mess them up.

    A part of us died that day and i do not feel compelled to fight for it.
    What women put up with/for men in the name of marriage.

    How much more a dirty relationship like this.

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    1. You are still hurting and not reaping the full benefits of your marriage, you have to rise above the demon of unforgiveness and move on.

      Will never justify or support violence against anybody, but over 15 years of marriage has taught me that moving forward with forgiveness (even when I chose to leave the bad situation) when terrible things happen benefits me more than my "enemy".

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    2. Wisely said Egbon Wale!

      Sometimes even when we do not feel the necessary emotions, we should make the right decision just because it is right and in this case, its your true happiness that is at stake. Don't trade your happiness for unforgiveness - It's only the strong that forgives and I put it to you that you can be strong...you are strong.

      So take simple steps like rendering some form of support in the house, handling some bills, etc. I'm not saying you should deny the hurt, pain, shock and trauma....I'm just asking that you allow love grow once more.

      Your penultimate sentence makes a lot of sentence but marriages is about sacrifices from both parties and lots of forgiveness - you would know this better. Its your marriage, perhaps your only marriage for your lifetime - why not make it the best.

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  7. When I watched the video I was like WTF? On top it she was saying baby am sorry, sorry gini?smh for the babe.

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  8. Sick and demented boy, terrible upbringing! How do you hit somebody at all not to talk of somebody giving you sugar!!

    I am positive that the boy will be caught and he will have his day with justice.

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  9. I'm really angry at this lady for subjecting herself to be beaten repeatedly like this. I still don't understand how she got to this point where her reality is an abusive boyfriend and she has to keep taking it. And she just stayed there and let him beat her without fighting back. She needs mental evaluation. She needs serious help.

    But I'm more angry at the passers-by here. How did we get to the stage where a human being would be mistreating another human being and you can conveniently stand there, record videos and even say "shebi I told you to leave him"
    Why did they "rescue" her after the guy was done beating her. They should have just kukuma stayed out of it nah. Ha! This is just sad.

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  10. Mtcheew. No matter the bloody murder we scream and outrage we express, if she doesn't want to leave there's no point.
    A Girl

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  11. I was trying to comment on this on Saturday but dunno why blogger does stuff to me, here goes...
    The girl needs help. Help to realise th mess she is in, help to know that she isn't worthless nor tied to this guy, help to know that she can actually leave and get herself in a good place and with another man, help to get herself together step by step and help to punish that guy.

    I've heard different excuses for staying in such abusive relationships but I've never really understood why people do so when they're not even married, married with kids nor married with kids and have no financial wherewithal,(and even when they are the cases, it's still difficult for me to just say oha, stay there for this reason. What if she does, gets sick, depressed and perpetually sad or dysfunctional?).

    I've seen that when a woman is in abusive relationship / marriage, they get weak and sometimes used to it.
    And I've also seen one,sorry to say, stupid girl, who said 'if a guy doesn't act mad or hit me sometimes then he isn't really loving me,' na wa o! LOL. It's funny yet sad...our mutual friend's brother thinks her father, has used her brain for money jazz! Lol.

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  12. I was trying to comment on this on Saturday but dunno why blogger does stuff to me, here goes...
    The girl needs help. Help to realise th mess she is in, help to know that she isn't worthless nor tied to this guy, help to know that she can actually leave and get herself in a good place and with another man, help to get herself together step by step and help to punish that guy.

    I've heard different excuses for staying in such abusive relationships but I've never really understood why people do so when they're not even married, married with kids nor married with kids and have no financial wherewithal,(and even when they are the cases, it's still difficult for me to just say oha, stay there for this reason. What if she does, gets sick, depressed and perpetually sad or dysfunctional?).

    I've seen that when a woman is in abusive relationship / marriage, they get weak and sometimes used to it.
    And I've also seen one,sorry to say, stupid girl, who said 'if a guy doesn't act mad or hit me sometimes then he isn't really loving me,' na wa o! LOL. It's funny yet sad...our mutual friend's brother thinks her father, has used her brain for money jazz! Lol.

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  13. I didn't even watch the video before. See the poverty settings that this girl is receiving beating from a short boy whose name is Bright but is obviously dumb. Idiot boy and apparently the neighbour had been warning about this guy's beating.

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