I'm sure most of the guys here can relate.
You know, I'm female but I've always thought about it, a million young men have lost love to that older guy who can give bae just what she needs.
And yes, I've heard them ask "can't you just wait for me for 3 or 4 years?" as if 3 or 4 years is beans 😂.
But that's not even the reservation I have. My own is what happens when she waits for you for those years and the time comes and
a) You still never blow
b) Your feelings have changed
c) You still haven't grown
d) You've both outgrown each other
e) Other possibilities
Yeah, so time wasted.
But still, I empathize and sympathize with young men at this stage, this is something that most men must pass through.
Oh, I also have some empathy for the young ladies who have to sacrifice love for "common sense" and marry that older guy who is "ready" and can give them the things they need; marriage, security, a family etc...
So come and tell me, all these men on this blog. I know this has either happened or is happening to you. Tell us about it.
Ladies, have you ever been the girl above? The one who had to dump her boyfriend for her husband? Did it hurt? Any regrets? Do you think you did the right thing?
And do we have any rarities? Those who stuck with each other and waited for the other person to be ready and got married? Hmmm... Please come through, let's talk about it.
As for me, I'm a mere spectator. Maybe one of these days we'll talk about why when I was younger I never appealed much to young guys... 😔😪😢😝
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