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Saturday, 28 January 2017

When Only Married Men Want You and The Few Single Men Who Do Are Lazy About It...





And I notice this all around me. I can see easily the vast difference in a married man wooing you and a single guy asking you out. Ironically a married man is willing to walk the lengths of the earth just to get you to have dinner with him. Most single guys want you to walk the lengths of the earth just before he texts you back. 

And many chics, around my age, older and younger complain about it too. 'All the men on my case are married! The single men just aren't there. The ones that are there act like they're doing you a favour by asking you out!'

This is the same song so many single friends of mine are singing and it's quite painful to listen to. 

*Sigh*. 


Anyone experiencing this? How do you cope?

8 comments:

  1. I believe most of the single women who complain about this are in their 30s. Most women like marrying guys who are older than they are...it's only natural that the older a woman is, the lOwer the percentage of single men who are around her age.
    Also Nigerian men have this caveman mentality that any woman who's single over 30 is at a disadvantage so single guys tend to play these women and take them for granted.

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    1. *shrugs*
      A girl

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    2. Nope, I'm not in my 30s, infact, far from it and I have the same story...

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  2. Thought it was just my friends and I that are currently experiencing this,now I see It's everywhere. maybe we need to stage a protest on behalf of the single ones. Maybel

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  3. Hi, I'm Leslie. I had my friend help me hack into my spouse's hotmail , SMS , facebook,Skype ,WhatsApp,call logs,when I suspected he was cheating. All he asked for was a phone number. You can contact him at (charlescyberwiz@gmail.com).870-513-0365. If u need help, tell him Leslie reffered u to him and he'll help. Good luck.

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    1. Chai, Thelma, dis annoying pple are back. Dam bu ruba!

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  4. As in ehn, I was just discussing this with an auntie ,how some guys(single) can be doing shakara for a lady they claim to be pursuing, giving you conditions upandan.

    How I cope?when I notice a guy is lazy in his pursuit of me,I give him a lazy response by not taking him serious.. No time abeg

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    1. My dear, the conditions thing ehn... and in two weeks, they're already talking to Chika, Somto, and Bisola too and you're there wondering what just happened.. I just thank God and move forward, no time..

      I tire..

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