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A Woman Scorned?

I often wonder if some of us get carried away with this love business. I know that a lot of us make the mistake of building our lives around the persons we love, so much so that the end of that relationship feels like the end of the world, a thought too heavy and ugly to deal with. 

I understand hurt and pain and heartbreak. But this up there, I don't understand! Like, even if you gave the person the oxygen that they breathe, even if you picked them from the gutters and made them royalty, even if you people entered this world together sef... I don't know what right anyone has to threaten someone who wants to leave relationship in such a way. 

Do we call this one a woman scorned or a woman possessed now?

Has the thought of someone leaving you driven you to do things you wouldn't normally do?

Some of y'all need to take it easy with your love oooo. LOL. 



  1. Lmao,
    Bisi take heed, you have been warned.

  2. Madam he will leave you and nothing will happen. He said he will "never marry any woman who will not add benefit to his life" he said marry not date o yet you carry your salary dey do mama put for him. To be fair, if she was living with him and he paid the bills while she paid for food, she can't come and be claiming she was used o. This post is even a big reason not to wife this woman.Like seriously. J

  3. Yes we do get carried away...the other alternative is to be extremely selfish and that comes with its many ills. She is scorned and borderline mad, men also ought to be raise not to violate or take the feelings of others for granted.

    1. Please where is the like button

  4. Lol. Choi, Choi Choi. After reading and replying Memphis on the other post,this is my nicotine-break post.

    I hope she keeps us updated cos this type of gist cannot just end here.

    All I wld say is be careful who you fall inlove with cos it's not everyone you can break up with. Not everyone takes rejection or breakup easily. Remember corpers who were killed cos a certain someone lost elections back in 2011 after attempting since 1999? Yh,that shit hurts..


    1. Was this supposed to be a joke? People died and it's funny? How does this even relate to the post?

    2. 3 paragraphs but ur trying to box my lol to just one statement? Nice try...

      To answer ur last question,when people are hurt, clearly they either do irrational things/irrational things happen as a ripple effect.

    3. Oh please spare me! Using such an example in an attempt to make any sense from this post is way too crass. I'm not here to argue with you because it's pointless, just don't make the same mistake next time and focus on the post itself.

    4. Lol (interpret it however you wish)

  5. So....after all the rubbish she has said. Will Bisi now marry a diabolical wife? She just gave him an extra reason not to marry her. Dumb ass girl.


    1. Kon,exactly my thought when I read this on BOM ,she has just worsened the situation.... marriage ain't by force neither is it a do or die affair,the earliervthe better people beginvto understand this. maybel

  6. People take a lot of things too far!

  7. When I discovered my ex was cheating on me with multiple partners, I was extremely heart broken. I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep, I was ill. It got to a point I was so inefficient at work. One night I prayed Psalm 109 with all the fervor I could muster; I was sad and angry and was even crying (LMHO). But after a few days I sat down and asked myself: "Nwokem, what are doing? You're fornicating, she's fornicating, only difference is that her ministry has multiple male (and probably female) members. So what's your issue?". I was disgusted at myself but immediately I stopped wishing her ill fortunes, I felt much much better. Pot cannot be black and be raining abuses on his black cousin, the kettle. Makes no sense.

    1. Dude! This is a very sad story mehn. Your babe was doing the whole hood. Damn!


    2. Lol. Bro, you're not exaggerating.

    3. Kon you're not alright!!!! πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

    4. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Kon!

  8. Nawa oh...babe ain't smiling...

    If I talk now,they will say don't know what love is

    So ama hold my peace

    1. Lmao,u don't know what love is biko... LOL. Rme.. maybel

  9. She is planning to go diabolical on a man she claims to love? isokay. One word for the man... Do not wife her.

  10. This babe is all shades of crazy

  11. It's very wrong but some issues can drive certain people off the deep end. There were probably abortions involved too, plus she might not be a spring chicken anymore. So many things she might not have said. It's easy to chant the clichΓ© mantra of 'recieve sense' and some other pointless expressions to make us sound like we haven't done silly things for love. It's never easy when you're the one in the situation.
    A Girl


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