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Tuesday, 25 April 2017

#MomentofTruth. I'm Just a Hater!





Truth time!!!

It takes great maturity to admit that you've got a shameful flaw. Something like, finding out you're a Hater.

I've just admitted that, so on the bright side, you can call me mature πŸ˜‰☺️. 

I'm seeing several definitions of the word/slang; Hater, online and I normally wouldn't refer to myself that way but how else could you explain scrolling through Instagram, seeing someone's picture and it's so fireπŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯! Then you ask yourself what is this one even feeling like sef, and you immediate go and unfollow them? πŸ™ˆ

I hit that unfollow button so hard you'd think I was going to break my phone's screen! 

Then as I continued to scroll down while internally rolling my eyes, I asked myself but Nwando, why? Are you a hater? 

Well it looks like I am. 

LOL. 

Or maybe it's that I'd just walked pass a mirror and caught a glimpse of my drawn bare face which I had meticulously made up an hour ago, makeup that been wiped away by stress, stress caused demanding customers and PHCN living down to our expectations. Maybe it's because pains in my left knee had caused me to limp like an addled old wench. Or then again, maybe it's because I feel long overdue for a vacation and can't take one at the moment, and someone has the effrontery to be lounging on a chaise longue by a pool, soaking up the cool sun and no doubt drinking a chilled cocktail with a very pretentious name 😑😑😑.  

In any case, rebuking the spirit of hateration I quickly scrolled back up and opened her page and followed her back like my success in life depended on it. 

LOL.

I'm proud to say, I'm no longer a hater. ☺️πŸ™ŠπŸ™‹

Shout out to @ugonnaomeruo. She's one of those people whose sense of style I strongly admire, mostly because I don't think I can ever be brave enough to wear some rather interesting pieces that she dons, like Nkiruka Anumudu whom I just love, by the way!

So you tell me, what's the one flaw you're absolutely ashamed to admit to people?

Be Honest!




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16 comments:

  1. I'm the laziest human being I knowπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆ

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    1. Me too. I might even be more lazy than you sef.

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  2. I'm stingy, even when I have money. I've tried to change but I cant, I think I inherited it from my dad. On the bright side it helps me to save

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  3. I feel you T, sometimes that feeling just comes to you but your ability to overcome is what is important.


    You asked for one and a lot just popped into my head. Chai!! Quirky you need Jesus.

    Lol.

    *Quirkymoi*

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    1. Per your first paragraph, spot on!

      I reckon reformation of one's thought is a process and its very okay for the first thought to be one of 'hate' or a similar feeling. Oftentimes, its not the first thought that counts, but if we allow such negative thoughts fester or we continually feed it. That's where the big difference is.

      Per flaw that I'm ashamed to admit, why would I, by my own hands, make myself feel ashamed? Hehehehe! Chrisyinks

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    2. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ smh for Quirky moi and Chrisyinks

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  4. Lol. Give it a few years and Reality Shows wld be the new Instagram page.

    What's the question again?

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  5. You know how people make friends and maintain the friendship, oiling it with all the necessary ingredients? Yeah I suck at that.

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    1. we in the same boat...I totally suck at it..TNHW

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  6. Mehn sometimes i could get jealous o especially when i really want something and its been handed to someone else who does not even get the value of it....f**ing kills me inside. But you know i overlook it and know mine will come.

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  7. To call someone is a tug of war for me. Except my mum (who by the way is always calling me) I go a month or more before speaking on phone with my closest friends. I just procrastinate and procrastinate and then forget it.
    About my procrastinaton game in general, story for another day.

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    1. Yeah I know that feeling of not being able to keep in touch.
      even my hubby says I drop the Phone to fast .

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  8. unless you know that person personally I see no reason why you should hate , after Bob risky case I stopped believing instagram pictures. can't remember me ever hating on anyone thou

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  9. And to my flaws I think that would be making and KEEPING Close friends, I no sabi for that aspect all, most of my friends are 'hello, hi" kind of friend

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  10. My mama told me years ago that I procrastinate too much. I thought she was just talking...

    But now! My procrastinating game is A1. Damn. Its really bad. Thats why I havent written my book on how to cheat and keep your wife happy

    Peace.

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  11. Lmao @Kon.

    We dey wait for that book o.


    *Quirkymoi*

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