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Better Husband!

I think this is really beautiful, a reminder that despite all the ugliness we see in marriages on social media, all the evils that many Nigerian husbands have become to their wives and all the increase in domestic violence, there are still good marriages and loving husbands. 

May God bless Kalu Igwe, I hope more men do this, actually express this type of love to their wives. Let those weak men who think it's emasculating to show their wives love especially publicly, and those men who makes their wives regret ever getting married and those men who barely tolerate their wives... Let them know that there are men just like them out there who still value the women they married. 

I don't know why but this post really touches my heart. 

Also, big shout out to all the men now speaking out against domestic violence. Normally men would either keep mute or place blame on the women for making their husbands beat them, now however I'm noticing that more men are speaking out against it. Please, more men should do this. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE. 

And yes, cheers to husbands like the one above. 

#marriageisbeautiful 😍😍😍



  1. ...yes, cheers to great husbands like mine... and yes marriage is indeed beautiful.
    Good to see men speaking up against domestic violence. I hope these same men dont beat their wives/ gfs at home oh!

  2. I guess the saying is true. To know an Igbo man,look at his wife..

  3. Thelma where is the share button Cos posts like this need to be shared a gazillion times.


  4. Awww.....that's so sweet. This is a breath of fresh air.
    This DV issue is so rampant one begins to wonder if there are good marriages.


  5. One out of 10 marriages look and sound like this and that's exactly what I wish for.

    1. So we only put the best marriages in the same group then it would be 10 in 10 marriages πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„

  6. NA real better husband! Cool! I like!
    "Let those weak men who think it's emasculating to show their wives love especially publicly..." you know Thelma, sometimes it's others who make some men,that would otherwise show PDA, hesitant or stop altogether, those people are worse! Than a person who by himself feels some type of way showing PDA.

  7. NA real better husband! Cool! I like!
    "Let those weak men who think it's emasculating to show their wives love especially publicly..." you know Thelma, sometimes it's others who make some men,that would otherwise show PDA, hesitant or stop altogether, those people are worse! Than a person who by himself feels some type of way showing PDA.

  8. Oya, I'm first to comment. And let me say, this is one reason to admire Anambra men. They can take care of women for Africa, are so sensitive to ur needs that they'll know dis lady needs pants and bras. Lol

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    2. Lol. True though. That was my dad. His soul rest in peace. My mum said if there was anything like reincarnation, she'd marry him all over again.

    3. first!?? for where? na proper 8th you carry πŸ˜‚

  9. Quick question ladies, would you rather the man buys panties and bras like the guy above or does having the man's debit and credit cards takes the trophy?

    I did this bras and panties thing once, and it was one funny experience I could write a book about; needless to say that there has and will never be a repeat of that adventure. Send me to the cosmetics store instead or kuku keel me!

  10. Lmao @Wale.



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