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Ladies, Can We Talk?

A while back a friend of mine called and among the things she said was that she slept with someone I was dating at the time. She apologized but I found that I wasn't mad at her, I was mad at the person who betrayed my trust. I mean, she betrayed my trust too, but I wasn't dating her...

But I wouldn't lie and say that there've not been times that I wanted to call a girl out for encroaching on what I considered my territory. I never have though...

Many of us females think it's very okay to do that. What do you think? I mean, in this case above its absolutely senseless. Your husband (Charles Okpocha aka amo shine aka haterz show me love or get off) posted a lady's picture on his own instagram and says he's crushing on her, and you attack her? πŸ˜•

Anyways... Are there times it okay to call the other chic out? Have you ever confronted a lady that your man was "talking to"? Have you ever been confronted by someone's man? (confess πŸ˜‚πŸ˜š). 



  1. Misplaced priorities. Of your partner doesn't respect or take your relationship seriously blame them not other.

    Uche face your (partner) work!!


  2. I was called out for nothing...we were just friends and I was called out and insulted, he broke up with her for that and today we are married with a beautiful baby girl

    1. Are you sure you were called out for nothing πŸ˜œπŸ˜‰ maybe not you but the guy 😁😁😁

      Nice happily ever after tho 😁

  3. Wait,you mean Charles Okpocha is a married man? Are you for serious?

    1. πŸ˜‚ lol. did he slide into your DM

    2. Slide ke? Lol. I always wondered who his videographer was. Now I think I know. Dude always has ridiculous videos on Instagram.

  4. She already has a broken relationship with her husband. All things being equal,the person to call out is her husband. Wetin concern the girl.

  5. Haaaa Charles don marry ni? I have not called anybody o and nobody will call me.

  6. If your friend sleeps with your significant other, two people have broken your trust here: your friend and the guy.
    I would never confront a woman on social media cos of a man, or even off social media, except of course she is my friend. And by confronting her, I don't mean fighting her or anything. Just letting her know that I know, and that's after I have dropped the guy like some hot piece of shit which he actually is.

  7. "Are there times it okay to call the other chic out?" No. Why? You have no business with the lady. She sat down jeje on her own before he went to toast her now. Even if its the other way round, the babe did not force him into her bed, he made the choice on his own. So no matter the circumstance, women should confront their husbands, not the other woman cos the other woman didn't vow to stay with them "till death do us part", their husbands did.

    "Have you ever confronted a lady that your man was "talking to"?" Nope. Never caught a boyfriend cheating..

    "Have you ever been confronted by someone's man?" Lol.. No. I'm very very very afraid of acid attack. Beside my fear of snakes, its the second thing I'm most afraid of. So I steer clear of other women's boyfriends, "close friends" and husbands.. I can't come and die biko.

    1. Women should not confront their husbands, women should talk with their husbands. There is a world of difference between confront and talk with, just wanted to share this.

  8. First of all, Charles okocha is someone you should never take seriously. The dude is always on something everyday, I mean you could tell from his abnormal music and insta videos. I wouldn't call a girl out anyway, I would be more worried about the person I'm dating than disturbing some other person

  9. I have been wrongly confronted by persons who thought their partners had something to do with me and I felt sorry they did and tried to tell them they were wrong.

    I don't think it's easy to not confront one whose partner is cheating with (I've never caught my partner cheating and I hope I don't, lol). And sincerely I sometimes think people should reduce the way they try to 'teach' women how to grieve about their cheating partners. I haven't done so nor do I think I would, but if a woman chooses to confront their partner's new interest then so be it. It's their shame, if they feel ashamed, to bear. I mean, I can imagine how painful it is to have one betray your trust or anything. Of course, to me, dignity should be maintained while 'fighting for your man' if you must. And also, it isn't just about the outside woman, your partner strayed and broke the contract - married or not(I've read someone say that a boyfriend can't be said to cheat as he's free till marriage- such rubbish! ), so he's at fault.

  10. All I see is her beautiful skin biko. Maybelline

  11. Called someone out? No. Been called out by someone? She came to politely ask in person if me and him had a thing, I said no. She told me about the issues they have, I advised her, we parted as friends. So no call out there I guess.
    A Girl


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