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6 Lessons From Getting Half a Million Naira To Giveaway.

If you've been following this blog then it's not news that a blog reader, Wale, gave me N500,000 for a giveaway. Wale ideated that I as the owner of the platform, take my piece and give the rest away. I decided to focus the monies on the blog because I simply appreciate you guys too much. I've been praying for a day I'd be able to do a thing like this. I always wanted it to be out of my own pocket but God has His own way of doing things, so while mine is yet to come he thankfully gave this wonderful man named Wale who's been nothing but a blessing. When I posted about the giveaway, I shared it here and the link on my social media pages and a few things happened. 

1. Money is a magnet. From the day this went up on my instagram and facebook I started getting phone calls from people I've not heard from in years. You would have thought I'd just won a hundred million dollar lottery. For days I was getting calls and messages. The callers all had different purposes. Some wanted to know if it was real or a joke or click bait. Some just wanted to say hi; as per now that I'm half a millionaire let's rekindle our friendship. Some immediately turned me into a welfare manager; they had bills they needed to pay immediately or things to buy that their lives depended on. People started to pay closer attention. People who have always known about TTB but had never bothered to visit suddenly did, not for the money but to know what it was that made someone give me that sum. Some people who had never bothered with me were suddenly very nice to me. Etcetera. It was interesting to watch. 

2. Some people will never be satisfied. This isn't news but still, I was quite surprised. I don't intend to hurt anyone's feelings but it boggled my mind when someone won 25k and wanted to know if they could also win from the 10k. Some people won 10k and wanted to know if their friends could also get 10k too. One said "my friend doesn't read your blog but he needs the money". I wanted to suggest that they give their friend their own 10k then. Some won gifts but wanted additional cash. On and on. I couldn't understand why some people couldn't simply be grateful and content with something that WE neither worked for nor are entitled to. 

3. The more the money the more your expenses. This is just life, I guess. It looks like a lot but then there's this and then there's that and then this and before you know it, poof!

4. Do not take people to where your bread is buttered. Ok there's no lesson here, because I didn't.  Many people wanted, not the giveaway but the source and some went about it in funny ways. A few came out outright and asked for contact details, others tried to be more subtle but both had the same goal; to go to the bakery. Unfortunately, I don't take people to where my bread is buttered. Call me selfish, I'll understand. 

5. When money come your way everybody come your way. 
    When money come your way everybody busy body. 
    When yawa dey for you every body Ben Johnson, 
    dem go deny you dem no know you again. 
Who knows that Tony One-week song? πŸ™ˆπŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­ . This is kinda like #1 but a bit different. The comment section was popping during that period but as the giveaway ended harmattan begin start. πŸ˜‚

6. Good people still exist. After all said and done, there are still good, kind people among us. Wale was extremely kind to do what he did. Especially considering that he did this expecting nothing in return.  That Naughty Housewife was also kind to pay it forward, while some wanted more, she gave from what she got. It's heartwarming to know that such kindness abounds among us. But there's even more. Several more people have done giveaways on this blog, Clare, Sunshine, Linda (cccc's sister), Oyinlola Sobowale, Nne and so many more that I cannot even remember. It's not the gifts that matter to me but that you were kind enough to give and that you chose my platform. Or is it the likes of Chrisyinks, Chimezie Nwodo and a few others that submit contributions simply to keep the blog buzzing and alive? Kai! y'all are awesome. I cannot thank you enough. 



  1. "dem go deny you say dem no know you again".

    Lmho. WCG don end, back to reality. Hahaha. I remember that song, makes sense and very well relates.

  2. Nice lessons learnt. The feeling you feel when you touch lives ehn....
    Pure bliss.

  3. yayy, my alias got mentioned..... pretty interesting lessons! Chrisyinks

  4. Yeah its a normal thing, money has lots of frnds. Btw tee u dd nt even wish me happy bday.

  5. Hmmm.. Like Memphis said, reality sets in..

  6. Ha, see the comment section opening for me. When I wanted to type my no 6, d thing no gree. Lol. Congrats to all d winners, and God bless al d givers. Yea, there are good people.

  7. That's just life."owo epo ni araye n bani la....."

    1. Point 4 got me in stitchesπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚...Everybody Ma wa alright.TNHW

  8. That's life for u.Nothing anyone can do about it.

  9. Reality of life...

  10. Well such is life. This one now your phone was buzzing like no tomorrow, imagine how SDK and Linda's phones will be buzzing lol.

  11. Thelma, you forgot to add that it motivated you to blog again. Before that giveaway, we had posting scarcity, now you are giving it to us daily.
    Uncle Wale eshe pupo...SBHM

    1. True. So what it means is that people need to do giveaways often in order to avoid posting scarcity. My account details; 2007498572 Zenith bank. I am waiting. ☺️

    2. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Thelma..

    3. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

    4. We will sow seed in ya ministry this year o! I owe one giveaway biko. If for nothing else, to keep d spirit to write my Lil breath of life. Kudos girlie!

  12. Enter your comment...all thanks to wale

  13. Lol. The way you squeeze out lessons from everything. Cool.

  14. I saw 103 comments on one post and I was like "who made all these comments?". It feels like people go online and just google "giveaways" cos the rate at which blog traffic increases during giveaways is amazing..

    The giddy feeling I had seeing my name up there ..πŸ˜‚ Thanks Tee. God will continue to bless all of us. Thanks to Wale once again for the money, I still remember my shock when I saw the post at work. I literally screamedπŸ˜„, my colleagues thought something happened to meπŸ˜‚. I told them that someone dashed "my blog" 500kπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

  15. Lol at posting account details. Many people are inherently selfish and so they forget themselves and carry on. Smh at folks asking for Wales contact- olodo people them. Give from your heart and God will always surprise you with that which you didn't know was possible.

    Also thank you so much for my kaftan/dress- God bless you plenty.

  16. All lessons are helpful for us to make things creative and working for us. Thanks for sharing us the best ideas.

  17. It is well, but I like that you are posting more regularly now

  18. I have always been a BV and scarcely comment and I did not win the giveaway(which doesn't matter).All I ask is that u please post more often.I enjoy reading your posts and the comments too.this blog feels like a close knit family.

    1. Anon thanks a lot. The truth is that sometimes I get really busy with business and sometimes I kinda feel like I'm wasting my time, so why bother, right? But comments like this reassures me that it's not a waste of time. So thank you. I will do better, and please also try to comment once in a while because that's encouraging too.

    2. Beht Thelma we really like your blog na. And your posts too.

  19. Lol...*closes eyes in shame and runs away

  20. humans will never seize to be humans.... ama WA alright ohhhh.


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