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When a Wife Decides To Show 'The Other Woman' Pepper. Literally.

An angry wife and her friends allegedly hold down her husband's mistress and stuff a bag of Chilli peppers into her vagina. 

What are your thoughts on this? Your thoughts in general on mistresses or side chics getting punished for encroaching on someone else's husband? Your thoughts on the same cheating husbands walking scottfree or even rewarded for cheating with more love and better sex from wifey. How do you think wives should could best handle the "the other woman" situation?

Who should get more blame for this "the other woman" epidemic;
A. The wife for not being able to keep her man 
B. The sidechic for dating a man whom she knows is married. 
C. The husband for not being able to keep it in his pants. 
D. God. 

Let's talk. 



  1. I think the main reason why most women would rather attack their husbands sidechick rather than their husband is because they know/think that confronting their husbands is a lost battle. I don't see any other reason apart from this. I don't even understand why they don't try hard enough confronting their husbands.

    1. There is no point confronting the husband.
      Its like when flies chase after shit. Do you confront the shit or the flies?


    2. I'll confront the both sir!
      In this case, there will always be shit so you better deal with the flies.

  2. Any wife that tries this with me should only pray I don't survive but if I do, she would know better than mess with me next time because I didn't force her husband to ask me out neither did I use jazz to date him. She should face her husband not me biko. I blame the man for cheating because no matter what you do, you can't please some men who have been destined to be dogs. I have a friend who is married (guy), even me as a woman I envy his wife, because this woman is 90%biko, I'm close to them, so I know, even her sex game no be here(so says her hubby) but if you see the kind of girls this guy cheats on his wife with I just shake my head and ask why....... Even him too can't explain it. So it's the man biko

    1. Babe you still dey talk..#yinmu.She should be happy the ain't showing her'acid'..If it was acid would you still talk...Fine men are dogs but when they ask a woman out,can't she say no?So you see,the side chicks are the only one who would continue suffering.TNHW

    2. Yetty I disagree it's a free world Biko,do what you feel is comfortable for you but I hate it when a woman is after her husband's side chick,haba why didn't she rub the pepper on his dick?? Let's call a spade a spade biko

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    4. "Any wife that tries this with me should only pray I don't survive but if I do, she would know better than mess with me next time because I didn't force her husband to ask me out neither did I use jazz to date him. She should face her husband not me biko"

      Are you saying you date married men? NNE na your hoohah will receive pepper next oh loools.

    5. Babe pray never to be in that situation,you would just notice that you fight with your husband,he begs you and blame it on the devil while the supposed chick keeps clinging unto him..Babe,you go wan treat fuck up jare.TNHW

    6. Lohla, the point here isn't if I do married men or not, it's the fact that the wife has no business with the side chick. Shikena and Yetty baby, trust me I won't treat the girl's fuxk up, if there's anyone's fuckup to be treated is hubby's not the babe. My2cent

  3. The wife and her friends are very stupid,why didn't they castrate her dog of a husband. The husband should take the blame o. They will keep looking for girlfriends every where.
    Like it or not,nobody can force a man to cheat if he doesn't want to.

  4. Very true Bloggitup! Why go after the girl? What if the man lied to her about his marital status? What if she had tried to quit but the idiot husband kept coming? Going after the girl will do no good, doesn't stop the husband from moving to another girl. Best best is to tackle the matter from the husband; deal with your husband.

  5. For the life of me i don't understand why wives attack the side-chick. For the love of God, the commitment is between you and your husband;The side-chick is not obligated to honour your marital vows, your husband is, face your husband,iron it how but leave the side-chick out abeg.

    Another girl

  6. If I were the side chick, I will make sure that woman's hubby sucks the peppered ponani lols..... And I will record it discreetly and send it to the wife and even file a lawsuit against her so that I can be protected by police cos she would be made to write an undertaken that nothing must happen to me....

    Results: na hypertension go chop the wife silently lols

  7. I typed this long comment and then it disappeared.. anywaiz, the point is, the side chick didn't promise to love and honor you till death, your husband did so, you should confront your husband not the mistress.

    Even if it was the woman who asked him out, which isn't always the case, he could have said no, but he didn't. We also have to bear in mind that some of these men lie about their marital status especially if the side chick is much younger.

    Let's not forget that the point of the post isn't who is to blame, it's who the wife should confront. I'm of the opinion that the wife has no business with the side chick, they owe each other nothing! Wives which cheating husbands should confront their husbands. Y'all like to act like when it comes to women, men can't think but that's a lie. They know what they're doing and how they're doing it.

  8. Who should be blamed? You can put the blame on Akon, he already said y'all should.
    #trollingtoday #boredaf

  9. Women are really from Mars and they need to understand that in as much as it hurts knowing another woman is with ur husband,ur deal shld be with him and not her!

    Dear married women,my advice to you on (single) women dating ur husbands: Instead of wishing karma on her or going all psycho like the above post, pray for her to get married and wish her well. Bitterness towards another woman wld end up coming back to you.

  10. The man is and wklly always be the number one guilty party, others are just excuses.

    Men cheat bcos they believe they can get away with it.
    some Women cheat, lots of men cheat.... irrespective of whatever their partners have (beds skills, great body, character, beauty, money) .

    It just takes a principled man/ woman to do the right thing.

    As a woman, i dont think i will go thos far over a cheating husband. Naa, why disgrace myself when I have other options to pay back.

  11. Those women should be arrested and thrown in jail!!!!!!

  12. A man has right to marry as many woman he pleases to, to me the wife is wrong to have attack the side chick because most men uses charm.the truth is most chick are desperate blame it on d recession.

  13. It is the husband who owes the wife loyalty, not the side chick.

    An average man cheats because he knows he would always get away with it.


  14. It is the husband who owes the wife loyalty, not the side chick.

    An average man cheats because he knows he would always get away with it.


  15. Enter your comment...some women are dogs and sexually active, they can't stay with out any long thing in their pussy and they are lover's of money.

  16. The women should have cut off the breast of that husband snatcher so that in her next world she will not try it again.


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