Can I ask a few questions please. Am I the only female who doesn't consider a man sleeping with someone else or "someones" else the ultimate betrayal? Like, I dunno. The only major thing that bothers me is him having unprotected sex and giving me HPV or some ish.
Sex, that doesn't bother me much.
Now the one that gets to me however is him getting emotionally involved with someone else. Aha! Now that's a problem.
Like, I think it wouldn't get my panties all up in a bunch if my man had random (safe) sex with some random girl. What would get my bomb ticking is late night chats, hidden phone calls, giving her time and attention, lying to me to spend time with her. That would get to me, even though they're not having sex.
Are you like this too?
Which would be a bigger betrayal to you and thus more hurtful? your partner having sex with someone else no strings attached? Or your partner having an intense emotional affair with someone else, yet no sex?