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When Your Weird Fetish Lands You In The Slammer. (The Man Who Rapes His Wife In Her Sleep).

A U.K. man has been sentenced to nine years in prison for sexually abusing his wife on camera while she was asleep. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
On March 14th, the man reportedly forgot his cell phone at home when he left for work, providing his wife the opportunity to look through it. As she snooped, she noticed a suspicious app called “Video Locker.” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
At first, she was unable to gain access, but after further manipulation, she managed to get in and discovered several videos of her husband performing degrading sexual acts on her, as she slept in their bed. In one of the videos, the man ejaculated onto the victim’s face wiping it off before she woke up. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Upon finding the footage, the woman contacted her husband and said, “I’ve just watched videos of you raping me on your phone,” prompting the man to immediately turn himself in. When he arrived at the station, he confessed saying, “I have had sex with my wife. She didn’t consent. She found out and saw videos on my phone.” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
As a result, the man, who is in his 30s, pleaded guilty to three counts of rape, one count of assault by penetration, one of attempted rape and sexual assault. He was then sentenced to nine years and ordered to sign the Sex Offenders’ Register for life. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
“You abused the trust that your wife placed in you,” the judge said. “Between September 2016 and March this year, you raped and sexual abused her while she was incapable of giving consent to your actions. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
“I take the view you took advantage of the fact that she was in drunk and a heavy sleeper. You did so for your own sexual gratification and treated her as an object for your fantasies, disregarding her wishes or needs.” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
The couple had been together for more than 10 years prior to the abuse.


Spousal rape is a criminal offense, at least in sane climates. But I wonder what you feel about it, do you agree that a man who rapes his own wife is a criminal and deserves to be imprisoned? Now to this guy above, do you think that's a fair sentence? Do you think 9 years behind bars serves him right?

Ladies in his wife's shoes how would you feel it all; the discovery and the sentencing?



  1. The man is clearly wrong, with the face job and all of that, not proper, but is 9 years in jail not a bit too much? I'm not sure about these things sometimes.

    1. Yes it hurt the woman; intentions where wrong, and. Dat can make u feel used in away. But eehhhmmm, na him wife na, I don't feel d jail sentence, and rape thing in its totality.

  2. Of course he deserves what he got but I have a question oh, how heavy a sleeper are you that you won't know you're being... Erm "penetrated". I'm not taking the man's side in any way just wondering. Except he drugs her anytime he feels like "necrophiliaing". God save us from household witchcraft. ๐Ÿ‘€

    1. Lol, asides drugging her, I can relate because I'm a heavy and terrible sleeper, in fact it's so bad that I don't sleep out, and when I do, I sleep with my jean trouser on... Okay bye

    2. ๐Ÿ˜‚ @household witchcraft
      I also wondered how heavy a sleeper she is that she didn't feel the penetration.. was she drunk every time he did so or did he drug her each time.. so many questions..

      But yes, the man is very wrong and yes, I believe there's such a thing as spousal rape and men or women who rape their spouses are criminals and should do time for it. I think 9 years is a long enough time to think about and reconsider your actions.

    3. That's my sister!!! ๐Ÿ˜‚
      Yeah... it really is a long enough time to reconsider your actions!

  3. I think 9 years is too much but the man is so so wrong. WTF. Hian. Sleeping with his wife while she was sleeping and even putting it on video. What kind of sleep is that sef.

  4. Lol. This is the one they say "o ti gba penalty lo throw-in.."

    You wld knw people who have been waiting for you to fall into a trap! #WitchNotWife

    After telling ur husband of ur discovery,you still proceeded to the police AND still press charges that earned him a 9yr conviction? #WitchNotWife

    I thought in marriage, two becomes one? What sort of rules are people making in marriages these days? Some things aren't making enough sense nowadays.

    1. Wife did not press charges.

      "...prompting the man to immediately turn himself in...".

      He turned himself in and confessed before his wife had the chance to file a suit. His confessions earned him the charges, he pleaded guilty and was sentenced. From the story-line it's obvious the wife probably had issues with his fetish and they both had an agreement which is quite serious. It was malicious of him indulging in his fetish without her consent.

    2. He is the real baby boy! ๐Ÿ˜‚

  5. Like seriously?What kinda sleep is that?The man obviously ain't okay too..TNHW

  6. It's strange that the woman was unaware of the rape,but they were married, I don't see any reason why he raped, maybe he's sick,mentally.

  7. The woman is a kolomental person,how can I leave without my hubby for nine years?? Kukuma kill me,she is just a devil not wife.

  8. The fact that he even has videos shows how sick the dude is.

  9. I hope this will explain to people why Tboss may also not have felt kemen''s fingers.



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