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Date Night With a 25 Year Old Guy.

Ok, so while others were in church praying for money or salvation or doing whatever it is people do in church these days, I'm here scattering my wardrobe looking for something appropriate to wear out on a date with a 25 year old. 

Alarming, right? But what can the righteous do? I don't understand God's plans for me and why the men I attract are either much older or much younger than I am. But whatever the case, I've decided to just roll with it. 

The older men mostly just want sex and/or companionship, someone to stroke their egos and their heads and would willingly pay you for it. The younger ones, many of whom abound in this lekki axis, are looking for who would pay them for good sex and the illusion of youth. 

Unlike their older counterparts, the youngens aren't so obvious about their intents but they don't know that what they can't see standing on top of a tree, we can see lying down in our beds. LOL. So they come and give you all their attention and pay you extravagant compliments, trying to make you feel sexier than the goddess of sex *yimu*, like say person no get mirror for house. 

In any case, the end game is to get you to have sex with them and give them the opportunity to rock your world from Jupiter to Mars, give it to you so good that you don't know when you start to pay their house rent, take them on shopping sprees and fly them to Dubai. 

Unfortunately for the ones who have crossed my path, like I told one of their older counterparts a few days back, I'm still too young to pay for sex, they should try in another 15/20 years. 

On a serious note sha, I met this 25 year old that wants to play in the big leagues. Bruv says "I want to take care of you" and that sounds extremely amusing yet  interesting to me. 

Up until this point I've treated him with mild amusement and disinterest, but what's the point of being single if you don't get to have adventures? 

So I agreed to a date tonight but I'm now kinda wishing I didn't, the pressure is too much! What to wear? How to act! What to order, so that bros doesn't start to sweat at the table? What to talk about? What not to talk about...?

So you see, I'm here to know what y'all think. Of course if it leads anywhere, this is only going to be for fun and temporary at best, so is it worth going out on a date for or should I cancel? What do you think about dating simply for fun while "waiting", or would you rather just wait until something potentially serious comes along? And lastly, what are good conversation topics  if I go on this date with this 25 year old? I haven't done this before and I really don't want to google good conversation topics for date with 25yr old man and 30 something woman πŸ˜‚πŸ™ˆ

Talk to me people!



  1. You can discuss sports, likes and hobbies or anything general. Don't sweat it.

    Enjoy your date.

  2. Me I want to know what to discuss during dates too, never been on one before.

    1. Wait, you've never been on a date before, or you've never been on a date with an older chic before?

    2. Went on my first date at age 27 and I was as nervous a Christmas goat. Days before the date I was practicing junk in front of the mirror 😁

    3. I've not been on a date with anybody o, older or youngerπŸ˜“. Like kabuoy prophesied sometime ago, 2018 is our year😀

    4. πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ˜‚ @Kene

      Memphis so how old are you now 😳

  3. Hehe, just let it flow Thelma, just do you, everything will fall in place or notπŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰

  4. Go and have fun try not to think about his age, he might just end being the most amazing guy ever

  5. lol... Me and the bro are likely to be age mates, so what do I even know to start advising you ehh T?? Lol, let me just learn from the comments. I hope the date went well shaa?? Plss come back and gist us.

  6. Waiting for Kon'S comment like hot pizza...No advise Thelma..Just have fun.TNHW

  7. You're young, he's young. He's 25, he's not a teenager, so don't fret. Talk to him like you'll talk to any normal man. If he responds like a teenager though (which I believe isn't gonna happen) then no need wasting time.

  8. Just here waiting for your gist on how it went... and also wondering, what if young bros reads your blog and even saw this post before the date?

  9. i once went on a "date" with a younger man. i needed to know what brother man was about, not what he's attracted to, so i purposely dressed to unimpress - covered from head to feet, and tied scarf on top... sorry if this is not

    1. Jesu! Adaugo! πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚! Chai! Ppl can be weird though.

    2. But why??!!! πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£

  10. Go and talk about food and entertainment. You may not be able to touch on career, obviously do not bring up ur swv days in high school.

  11. Im just here looking at the pic you put up with this post.


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