There's much more to anyone's life than what they post on social media. For instance when I posted that I'm broke a few days ago... About an hour ago I offered to buy someone lunch and she said "but you're broke, i should be the one buying you lunch". It made me realize that sometimes people seem to think this is all there is. But it's not, besides being broke is temporal ooo. That I'm broke doesn't mean I'm poor. I have plenty debtors, owing clients and some investments, I just didn't have access to any of my money at that point in time. Oh, btw shout out to that (silent) blog reader who said "Thelma let me send you money for movies and ice cream", then she went and sent me money that can take me and my extended family members to the movies and Cold Stone.
Thank you M, I am still so grateful and touched by your generousity.
My people please help me thank our blog reader who simply identified herself as M. You may not understand my gratitude, but it's rare that someone from the blog sends me a mail saying they'd like to give me something and actually does so, so what she did really touched me.
He's The Boss:
So I'm not one to "drag" power or anything. Actually although I'm a feminist I'm a strong believer in treating my man like a King, and doing all the things that I know would make him happy, as long as I'm not hurting myself. But err, I'd like to know what you think about being submissive as a girlfriend, not wife o! Girlfriend! So this guy (I'm reluctant to use any labels yet although he's certain we're in a relationship...) he's great and all that, but he is soooooo traditional! So much so that he almost expects us to have a father-daughter relationship. Yes he treats me well, spoils me when he can and is a really great guy. BUT he doesn't want me arguing with him, he wants to call the shots for the both of us and while he's not controlling, he wants to have a say in things like how I dress, what I do to my hair etc.
I'm not too sure how I feel about this. I really really really like him, I love being spoiled by him, I love that he's very intellectual and knowledgable yet so much fun to be with. But I'm not too sure how I feel about him being "The Boss".
Should I just relinquish power to him, sit back and enjoy being a "baby girl" or should I fight for my right?
LOL, what would you do?