So I didn't think much of this chat because the sender is a non-factor but then driving through traffic later in the morning and having time to think random thoughts, it occurred to me that this is yet another ex that has come to say I'm sorry I hurt you you're an amazing person. I hope I don't come off sounding conceited because I don't intend to, but I don't think I've got an ex who didn't come back later to tell me how wonderful/amazing/beautiful/fantastic/good-hearted I am. Of course at that point it doesn't matter as there's already water under the bridge, so they all just want me to know they're "sorry" and I'm "amazing".
This one for instance has been calling my friends for months, telling them he needs to talk to me, that he did me wrong even though I was near perfect and did nothing to deserve that kind of treatment, says he just needs to apologize.
I've heard this all before. In fact if I got paid everytime an ex told me this my bank account would be so much juicier than it currently is.
Like, most come with the I'm sorry I hurt you, you're really a very wonderful person you didn't deserve it. But a few others go a bit farther with "I honestly wish I'd married you instead".
But my question is; if I'm so wonderful/amazing/beautiful/fantastic/good-hearted then why do they leave?
Let's have fun with your theories this isn't a serious post so don't hold back, your theory can be your honest opinion, a crazy theory, your observation or just a thought.
And if you can truly relate to this then please share your experience with us.