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The Weekend


Last weekend was a whirlwind of events for me, and that's why I wasn't here a lot. So on Saturday I attended a former classmate's wedding with my friend Idu. Idu and I got into this little argument about being best friends in QC. you see the way I remembered it, I had another bestie(s) then one day Idu tells me I'm her best friend. I was like ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ. This weekend however I was telling Idu that I was meant to go out with Bukky and she asked "which Bukky?", I said "My best friend in QC". She said "Wait Nwando, I thought I was your bestfriend? You said I was your bestfriend!๐Ÿ˜ณ?"  


I now explained to her that err, she wasn't but she told me that I'm hers so I had to play the part. Idu got mad and swore that it was the other way around, that I told her she's my bestie so she had to play the part and on and on we argued. Like really argued. I was amazed at how mad she was, I'm like babes chill yo, that was 15 years ago. Another argument ensued. Idu refused to believe that we left school 15 years ago. She said it's not even remotely that long, maybe 5-10. But me I sha remember us graduating from QC in 2002 ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.

Well we got to the wedding which held at the Muson Centre and it was nice to see former classmates. But trust QC girls, they don't disappoint. A few would look you in the eyes but refuse to say hi. Some will just look right through you as if you're glass. Some will say a very icy hi daring you not to approach, but thankfully some were full of love and laughter and we hugged and kissed and did some catching up. 

Oh, i was so excited about her bridal store in Lekki phase 1 along Pinnacle filling station (just in case we've got a bride-to-be who happens to be around there and wants to pop in๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ‘ฐ๐Ÿ’). So you can check her page out on Instagram @elizabethandlacebridal. They're really lovely and classy, just like Idu, yet affordable ๐Ÿ˜. 


Idu and I got back home at almost midnight and then I got a message that Latasha Ngwube would like me to attend a curvy fashion day out event the next day at Grey Velvet, hosted by @mabelloclothier and @aboutthatcurvylife so on Sunday after church I headed for Circle Mall and had a very fun afternoon. I was also gifted that pretty maxi dress and I got to meet some really interesting people. Azuka Ogujiuba was one of those people. She was very easy to talk to, we exchanged numbers and I intend to stay in touch. 

I spent most of the afternoon with one of my besties, Yoko, who's Latasha's younger sister. And we parted with plans to see next weekend, but we saw sooner than we thought. 


Yoko and I got invited to this really nice swanky new lounge called The Artisans on Anifowoshe street of Adeola Odeku Victoria Island where we were till about 1am, almost getting carried away by the live band. You see I'm not a live band kind of girl but something about this band got me moving. Even Elvina Ibru, one of the biggest live band "connoisseurs" in the country was in the house with her clique and they were really impressed, that's how good the band is. Unfortunately Yoko had work in the morning so she needed to leave so that she can keep her job ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚, so I guess I had to leave too, 

That was pretty much my weekend. It was awesome meeting new people but the best part for me was spending it with my closest friends, those friends that we had before we had breasts ๐Ÿ˜‚. They are the ones you can trust with almost anything. 

I'm really sorry for the poor picture quality. I need a camera, and if you're feeling generous you can buy me one ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰.

How was your weekend guys? I hope your week has started on a good note? 



  1. I don't even know. Family is always dope as usual and considering everyone is at home it was kind of fun. As my sis and I got to do a little makeup shopping.

    1. I'm blessed to have all my family members still on earth but reading your comment made me miss the days when we all still lived under one roof and had those days we all spent together at home. It's so easy to take these things for granted ๐Ÿ’”

    2. It's really so easy to take these things for granted. I'm going for my masters in a week's time and while I have been counting the days another part of me still longs for the presence of family. Cos I actually know that during Masters and after I might not have an opportunity like this to be home and just enjoy home.

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    1. Oh really? I always thought it was life band oh. Thank you.

  3. Thelma, those old time friends are really the friends indeed.You see them feel genuinely happy for you, genuinely sorry when things ain't going well, they're friends you can confide in and you're rest assured that they've got your back.

    1. That's the truth, especially about them being genuinely happy for you. God bless them ❤️

    2. Beautiful faces... Glad you had fun baby..

    3. I have this friend since secondary school. She pratically tells me stuff before she tells someone else and somehow her joy is my joy and vice versa.

  4. Thelma shey you wie not be taking me along like this ๐Ÿ˜ Work work work work work... I feel like so many fun are things happening in Lagos and I'm just here spending my active days working and working.

    Thank God for Sunshine in my life, who took me to terraculture. I was like ๐Ÿ˜ฑThere's something like this in Lagos๐Ÿ˜ฎ What have I been doing with my life ๐Ÿ˜ฐ

    Thelma help your girls(sunshine included) ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ

    1. I'm very sure you and Sunshine are balling where I am. Me that anytime I go to the village I'm most times at I'm always hyping Lagos but deep down in my heart I know the Lagos I'm hyping I have not seen it. Me that I'm just a boring someborry.

    2. "But deep down in my heart I know the Lagos I'm hyping I have not seen it" ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ
      I can relate! When I tell my friends in Ib that Ib is boring they ask me to tell them the exciting spots in Lagos ๐Ÿค
      Story ba tan ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ

  5. Thelma, so you had all the fun for everybody, abi? No wonder I had a really boring weekend.

    1. Lol.... No be small.

      I wish I can hangout half as much as she does. My life would more interesting.

      Oh well.


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Just checking in to sign the register. Lol. It's been a very busy week and it looks like it might be an even busier weekend. I was hoping to get some writing done when I got to the airport yesterday but I even almost missed my flight. It was hopeless trying to do any work on the plane as it was bumpy af, and this toddler behind me wouldn't stop screaming in piercing shrieks like he was being exorcised. 
I got into town pretty late and needed to keep an appointment ASAP. I'm heading out right now and it's going to be a long day, but thought I should drop this first. 
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