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Thelma Asks...

Oh wow. Just $5?

Ok I guess I'll have to go with 4 & 6. Wealthy and great sex. Don't judge me. LOL. 

And while we're on the topic, let me ask. I've got this friend that doesn't like, or is indifferent about that one thing that most girls want in a man, and that's a big eggplant. For some reason, for her,  the smaller the better. 

I know, I don't understand it either πŸ˜•πŸ˜…. 

So I'm asking you, what's that one thing in members of the opposite sex that most people like but you're indifferent about it?

For me its height (and (6) packs). Most girls want a man who's much taller than they are, but I find that I'm totally indifferent. I mean, I don't want to be with a tiny man but I don't mind being taller than my man at all. And as for the packs, for me the fewer the better. I don't even mind a small pot belly πŸ™ˆπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

Now it's your turn. Build your ideal man with $5. And (ladies & gentlemen) tell me something most people of your gender like in the opposite sex that you're indifferent about. Let's go πŸ˜‰πŸ˜ƒ



  1. Sex......Chrisyinks.

  2. 3,4 &10. I mean if he's really smart, him being wealthy is a no brainer.

    Most girls like good looking guys but I'm weirdly not moved by a good looking guy. I find myself moving away from any guy that's too fine. Provided he's smart and can hold a decent convo and I has two coins to rub together then we're good. Ironically, I married a fine manπŸ™ˆ. To think that I ran away at first cos of his looks.

    1. Haaa! Smart <> Wealthy

      There are a lot of smart, very intelligent but not wealthy guys ooo!

    2. Lol Lola i'm like you, was running away from fine men and went and married one.
      Well my ideal man is 5 &10. Faithful and romantic.
      I'm not crazy about six packs and height, just be taller than me even when i wear heels

  3. Nawa oo! Just $5? Tough call, but I'll go with 4 and 5(great sex and faithful). Thelma, you "is" a tall lady now, thats why you don't mind your partner's height. Personally, i LOVE tall guys(I'm talking 5"11-6"2). I'm 5'2,so don't judge me😁.
    I love fit guys too abeg. You cannot come and have pot belly at this young age mbok, when you're 50,what will you now have?
    As for one thing most girls like that I'm indifferent about, i think its cute guys. I don't see the big deal with having a cute guy, so long as he's presentable and has a good fashion sense, I'm okay with it.

  4. wow... i will re-invest the $5... where is MMM when you need it? the money must yield

    ... most females i guess like (facially) handsome guys... but while I like a facially good-looking guy, I think great body > facial looks... I mean, I think Seal looks attractive... 'nuff said

  5. $5 isn't enough...
    Maybe greater than 5 but less than 10 would have been OK.

    I'm in my house, coman beat

  6. Chai! Faithful and wealthy costs $6! I'll go for tall,smart and faithful.

    Cheating is a no no for me... I find it degrading to be in a marriage with an unrepentant cheat.. No matter how rich he is, I'll never be happy.

    A smart man will always find ways to make money and cater for his family... Doesn't have to be wealthy.. I'm also hardworking and ambitious.

    I'll go with a tall man.. I'm slightly above average height and olive wearing heels.

  7. Wealth... I'm a bit indifferent about wealth. I feel too much wealth even destroys a marriage. Relative comfort is good enough for me. Enough food on the table, building our own house steadily over the years, having just enough to educate our kids and few luxuries.
    I value faithfulness, great friendship , romance and true love above all else in a marriage. That's what makes me happy.
    So I'll go for tall, smart and faithful. I choose those in a former comment but forgot to include my name.


    1. interesting comment you make about wealth. i remember one not-so-wealthy guy trying to toast me one time. Dude said he has done his research, and found that rich guys don't treat their wives right, only not-so -rich guys have the capacity to love a woman good. i found myself laughing in itsekiri that I don't even speak

    2. @Gift, but I see where ur coming from though. It was just odd with my friend that he would think rich men can't love their wives, hence I found it funny. But I see where ur coming from in that these days, more focus than there should be is placed on the size of a man's pocket.

    3. Ada ugo...I'm not saying poorer men can't be assholes but that dangote-kinda wealth corrupts most people. women won't allow them to rest...temptation everywhere. Plus the dedication needed to keep such wealth is tremendous, the man may hardly have time for his family.
      Like how much money does one really need in life? Designer bags etc do not overly freak me.

      But that's just my own opinion sha.


  8. Wealthy and a great body it is for me. Would have taken num 4 but half the thrill in it for me lies in the bod! Now If say Kabouy was nice enough to loan me a dollar, I'd throw in funny too.
    What I'm indifferent about? The eggplant.

    1. You have it baby.... what I want is not on the list πŸ€£πŸ˜‚

    2. Now I have seen a partner @kabouy. Maybe if I was to pick I would pick smart and faithful. 3 and 5. I'm really Indifferent about been wealthy. Don't get me wrong o, I like money , I mean I have things on my bucket list that only money can solve. But I dont like guys who make wealth the centre of their being. I'm also indifferent about been handsome, there is something called packaging na, so panel beating is allowed.

  9. 5,3,1. I'm indifferent about a fine face. Just dress well

  10. Things I'm indifferent about....

    Eggplant.... what is that sef?! 😜
    Six packs 😏

    I don't even know what I want sef πŸ™ˆ

  11. 4&5 or 2,3&5, that 5 is sha constant..

    Per the second question, I used to read a lot of Harlequin and Silhouette novels back in secondary school and I just sorta assumed every guy had a huge eggplant cos all the lead female characters were always surprised/impressed by the size of the man's eggplant, sometimes scared even. Fast forward a few weeks ago, my colleague was complaining to me about this really great guy she was seeing but wasn't sure she'd continue seeing him cos his "kini" is too small and I'm like "err... What?😲" πŸ˜‚

    So I guess I care about size🀣

    Stuff I don't care about, 6 packs, height (I don't like all those 6ft people that I'll be straining my neck to look at.. just be reasonably tall). I also run away from those "drop dead gorgeous" guys, those ones that their fineness is a distraction.. I like looking at them (duh!) but dating them is another kettle of fish entirely, I can't come and be having hypertension because girls are chasing you. Just be handsome and have sense, we good.

  12. Great sex and wealthy Biko.. I'm indifferent about six packs and height, shaa don't be short... Shikena


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