Apparently this no blowjob clause is a real issue. My friend *Ada is experiencing something similar in her marriage. She simply cannot bring herself to do it and it's causing huge fights.
It would be insensitive of me to just say "just do what makes your husband happy in bed, blow that man's mind away!" when I don't know what other women's internal struggles are.
For some women, the issue is sanitary, for some it's spiritual, for some it's an inability to relax during sex, for some it's shame caused by lack of skill, and then there are others... So, it's really not so black and white.
A few years back a guy posted something similar here and he was on the brink on cheating as he just couldn't see himself going through life without a blowjob! (Hehehe. Is it that serious though? 😳😂)
Ladies are you pro or anti blowjobs?
And why is it that only few men go down on their wives but we don't hear women threatening to cheat because they want head?!
Lastly, I'd like to know your thoughts on this; every sexual act is fair game as long as the couple is married; oral sex, anal sex, kinky sex etc?
Mail culled from @joroolumofin.