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I Have a Confession. What's Yours?

I'm not proud of this at all and I can't believe it because it is so unlike me.

You know how some people see you and just dislike you for no particular reason? I've always wondered about such people. But now I'm one of those people. 😳😟

There's this chic on Instagram who runs a food blog and is into the food business and I just don't like her. I don't know why. Anytime I see her food pictures I get angry or mildly irritated, maybe it's the annoying customized names she gives some of her dishes or it's the way she seems to think shoving 100 boiled eggs into the bowls of her olori ofada makes it look appetizing *Yuck!*. I just feel like there's something dirty about her, mind you she's rather posh o! British accent speaking, UK returnee. And she's a pretty lady too. But I can't help this nagging feeling that she's a fraud, that she's somebody posing as something that she's not. 
      After seeing her on my explore page for a while, I followed her because I thought if I know her better I may start to like her. But I unfollowed her because anytime I saw her or her food pictures on my timeline I'd start to get a bit nauseated. I don't know her from Adam nor does she know me 
o! We may never meet, and I actually suspect she might be a nice person. I just cannot understand why I feel that way about her. In fact since I unfollowed her, her posts occasionally appear on my explore page and I start getting pissed. 

I'm not proud of this at all. The girl is over there living her best life and completely unaware of my existence and thus unaffected of my unpleasant feelings, but I just can't help myself. 

That's my confession this morning. I didn't not ask for your opinion about it o! Just drop your own confession and go.




  1. You didn't ask for opinion but I'll give it 😝 I think there's something about her presentation you just don't like, it might not necessarily be that you don't like her as a person, it my just be her food presentation that really upsets you... Cos its anytime you see her food you get upset yh? We can't all like everybody can we now.

    There's a makeup artist I also don't like, anytime i see her photos, I just get... irritated and embarrassed cos the makeup is usually so poorly done. The part that gets me is how she lists all the products she's used and I keep going back to the picture to see if i can find them buy naa still poorly done. I actually know her, I know she's a great person but her makeup shaaa. I don't even think I can tell her cos she's so into the thing feeling like a makeup slayer.

  2. I'm konjified.
    I just may jump into a waiting bed. I need to get past this phase.

    1. I feel you Ruby...The hubs has been out of town for a while and I was konjified too,dude came back and started feigning tiredness

    2. Errr....can yall leave my name out of this. Whats Kon-jified? Use another word.

      Iv said it before - there is alot of sexual tension with the blog readers.


    3. Tell your name to leave some single sisters in peace.

    4. LolπŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜πŸ˜€πŸ˜€

  3. Haha....i know the person, I also follow her and I share your opinion - the hype is unbelievable-
    Have a nice day thelms....SBHM

  4. I had a lady at my last workplace I just could not get myself to feel comfortable around, and I couldn't explain why. I just felt she was pretentious and just...ugh... I really don't know, but I avoided her at all cost. But she was always sooo pleasant to me, offering to help me whenever I have a problem, etc, and that just made me feel even more terrible about how I felt. I really tried to get over it, engaging her here and there in conversation, but there was just a HUGE wall between me and her. I would avoid eye contact with her in the morning, so I don't have to say "Hi", and just generally try to stay as far away from her as possible. It was completely irrational, and I really don't know why I felt that way.

  5. My boss is nice and caring but he's too dirty, he hardly shaves and looks unkempt, by the way it sucks been single, I just discovered my zodiac sign is unlucky when it comes to love.

  6. I am backsliding. It started over a year ago but I didn’t notice until some months back and now I don’t know how to find my way back. I really want to but it’s like my heart is hardened. I still go to church and all but it just feels empty. I have been reading a devotion about finding your way back to God for a few weeks now and although the daily reading hit every mark like it was spot on everyday, I still feel really empty inside. I don’t know what to do. God used to be the literal center of my world but now, I’m just empty. I need help.

    1. Stop beating yourself, rather, talk to God about it. Talk to God, not pray. There is a difference. Prayer may not work at all. Just get a quiet place, tell Him the exact way you feel as if He's seated right in front of you, then leave the rest without entertaining any worry. He knows how to bring you back to Himself. The more you try to do it yourself, the harder you might fail.


    2. Most times when we beat ourselves about our relationship with God. God isn't looking at us that way. Its just the devil trying to show up and starts pointing accusing fingers. God actually sees Christ in every believer. Like F said talk to God, prayer is actually communication between one and God. Check your Bible and study verses that says God is with you at all points. Like Rom8: 38&39 inshort the whole Romans 8, 1st Cor 6:17, Col 1, Heb 1. Let your mind dwell on this things as you pray. If you speak in tongues you can do that too as it edifies us. It is well with you.

    3. Most times when we beat ourselves about our relationship with God. God isn't looking at us that way. Its just the devil trying to show up and starts pointing accusing fingers. God actually sees Christ in every believer. Like F said talk to God, prayer is actually communication between one and God. Check your Bible and study verses that says God is with you at all points. Like Rom8: 38&39 inshort the whole Romans 8, 1st Cor 6:17, Col 1, Heb 1. Let your mind dwell on this things as you pray. If you speak in tongues you can do that too as it edifies us. It is well with you.

  7. Confession - Im actually a very good guy.

    Even though everybody thinks Im a bad ass motherfucker.
    Girl are scared of me, they think if they come too close they will fall for my traps and be forced to live forever with heart break. And get addicted to me.
    Guys show me respect like Im some drug cartel boss. My street credibility is through the roof. Guys dont try shit they try with other people around me.
    Old people show me respect like Im the old one
    Area boys be hailing me like they know me from the hood.
    Its confusing somethings.

    The only peeps that dont care about me are Police and FRSC. They know the truth.


    1. Kon you are a bad ass..Why do you still want to break hearts??Atleast,somebody knows the truth πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚TNHW

  8. There is this relatively new neighbour who tried getting really close to me and my family. She and her husband with two teenage/preteen girls live in flat above us. In as much as I do not condone friendship with neighbours as a matter of principle, I decided to 'hear her out'; then she introduced herself as Pastor Mrs. A......I 'changed it for her' since then. I wouldn't partake in her charity works, I woldn't allow my kids visit; I discouraged visiting her too. There is just something which scares me in people who introduce themselves as Pastor and carry an air of superiority complex (either real or imagined).


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      Hi F, I’m Pastor Miss Kabuoy! πŸ˜‚πŸ€£

      I totally get you though.

      Now I’m gonna have to find out how my parents introduce themselves to people they don’t know.πŸ˜‚

    2. Hey F, As an outgoing and liberal fellow, I tend to be welcoming of people who initially may not appeal to some of my idiosyncrasies. I reckon till she's guilty of undesirable behavior, you can still welcome her gestures. Chrisyinks

  9. I broke up with someone I’m not even in a relationship with and he doesn’t know Iv broken up with him even we though we both know we are not in a relationship.

    He is Viju chocolate πŸ˜‚πŸ€£

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      Kabuoy darling.. see your sister here.. although I’m not sure you’ve broken up with Viju yet, I haven’t seen you indulge in a while..

    2. It’s me! πŸ€£πŸ˜‚
      I don’t even know why I went anonymous sef 🀣

  10. Most times I think relationships is overrated. I just like my space. Though sometimes I feel like just having that one person. By the way most guys think I'm a Iron lady kind of person. I don't know why. People that saw me on the previous hangout, do I look like such no.

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