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THELMA THINKS Blog Readers & Good For Drinks.

Ok I just stopped to say that I'll be having drinks with Kon, Sasha BonΓ©, Ruthy, Ibukun and others tomorrow (24th Oct) evening, either in VI or Lekki Phase 1. Anyone who's interested in coming through should please call/text me on 08173600406

We may or may not go see a movie first. 

It's nothing serious, just a few blog readers who want to have a chilled yet fun evening together, while we still can. The vibe and conversations are always lit when TTB readers meet, it's like we've already known each other for ages even if it's just the first time we're meeting. 

This isn't the typical blog hangout, this is a lot more chilled, we just wanna kick back, have a few drinks, eat and gist. So holla at me if you're good for drinks tomorrow night. 

Ps. please don't forget to come with your wallet, because unless someone decides settle the bill, it's each perzon for him/herself. 

Speaking of blog readers, let me ask y'all

Which blog reader would you most like to meet? And why?

Which blog reader do you never want to meet? (Don't worry, it happens πŸ™ˆ). And why?

Whose comments do you most look forward to?

Please don't dull me with your answers, or lack thereof πŸ˜‰πŸ˜ƒ



  1. Blog reader I'll like to meet is Chrissyinks. I already know him virtually and the conversations are always lit. Not all those mgbeke conversations you have with some boys.
    Blog reader I never want to me.. No one really, but I sort of picture alfarsi as a weed smoking garage boy with only lewd things to say.
    Comment I look forward to, it has to be kon. He brings an interesting perspective. It used to be Uyi's, but Uyi has disappeared. πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ

    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ @ Alfarsi the weed smoking garage boy. The irony is that people like that can rarely ever look you in the face and talk to you IRL. Their noise ends on the keypad πŸ˜πŸ˜…

  2. I would most like to meet Chrisyinks. Somehow I know we would click. The next person would be Kon, he is one person that would be good to observe from far and just be learning and blushing underneath. The next person would be TNHW because I know she has life Chronicles in her. I know I exceeded one but....
    The person I DONT want to meet is Alfarsi. You know why..
    The comment I look forward to most is Kon
    Though sometimes his comments run overboard.

    1. The sisters want to meet Chrisyinks. Hmm.

    2. lol @ Kon.

      @ Iyanu/Ibukun, perhaps, when I'm in your zone or you are in my zone, we could meet up.

      Quite open to meeting most blog readers. Happy the TTBV 'family' is growing in numbers and strength of bond. Don't think there's any blog reader I wouldn't want to meet. I revel in meeting people and making new friends.

      Memphis' comments stand out for its insights and I marvel at the depths of wisdom contained in it. Kon's perceptive grasp about relationship matters is also another one. F and J for perception; Pynk and Clare for the motherly perspective; Sunshine and Kabuoy for the light, sometimes comical and smart outlook; Blogittup for the down-to-earth way and a host of other commenters. Chrisyinks

  3. Person I would most like to meet that I haven't met is another girl/a girl, I don't know if it's the same person but their comments are similar, Bloggitup, and plenty others sha, now that I come to think about it, especially some really cool anonymouses.

    Person I never want to meet... Hmmmm, Memphis. Because he's a ghost, and Alfarsi!

    Comments I look forward to the most J, Kon, Ziggylucious, sasha bonΓ©, miss pink, FNLP, another/a girl, Kabuoy, Wale, F, Chrisyinks, Iyanu/Ibukun, Maybel, Sunshine, (I miss) Gbolahan, Clare and at the risk of naming every commenter let me stop here πŸ‘€

    1. So u don't miss my comments Thelma?
      I'm hurt!

      I always look forward to your posts though.

      Comment I look forward to reading: Kon and Miss Pynk


    2. Ehen. This is why I shouldn't have commented πŸ™ˆ, I cannot name all the names nau πŸ˜….

  4. The BV I would like to meet is Memphis, just cos we had the littest “discussion” with Sasha BonΓ© and Thelma tonight and held our own even tho I’m not sure who wonπŸ˜‚ but like Thelma said, he’s a ghost so.. next is Ms Pynk (I just like this woman), Wale (cos his comments used to remind Kabuoy and I of our dad, it was actually Kabuoy’s reactions to Wale’s comments that got me interested in TTB) and Punintended (just curious).

    BVs I never want to meet - The caustic ones, they should just hold their side biko

    Whose comment I look forward to - it used to be Wale and Ms Pynk but they don’t comment as frequently anymore. Kon cos he sometimes surprises me with his opinions/viewpoint.

  5. I want to meet Thelma oooo! And is like every hangout she shows up at, I’m never there! πŸ˜₯ something always happens 😒😰 world people πŸ™„πŸ˜’

    Blog commenters i’d love to meet: FNLP, Blogittup and Clare πŸ™‚

    The one I don’t want to meet: Memphis (because I’ll just drag him straight to the registry. And I don’t think Iv built up enough muscle for that. Still working with my trainer on that one.)

  6. Replies
    1. Speak of the devil. It'd be interesting to meet you. I reckon you aren't as 'bad' as your comment portrays. Either that or you haven't realized the intrinsic goodness in you. Chrisyinks

  7. I want to meet Blogitup. Yap, its because of the picture Thelma put up with her hot-seat post. I just want to see if ehhhm...if errrrmm....ifff....iffff.....

    I like seeing Memphis comments. Maybe because I can predict his perception, so I like to know if my predictions are correct.


  8. The comment i look forward to reading the most is F, she has this balanced view on things, she rarely comment nowadays i think.
    Then that of Chrisyinks, Clare henshaw, J and Miss pynk.
    Blog members i like to meet will actually be every body, i like to connect a face to comment.
    Another girl is different from A girl though. We meant at the last get together.

    Another girl

  9. I'll like to meet Thelma. I look forward to kon and Memphis' comments. And a host of others too but they rarely comment these days. I'll like to observe son blog visitors from afar before meeting them. Reasons best known to me lols. Nothing creepy I promise.

  10. I actually want to meet alfarsi...Something tells me the dude is actually fun to be with...I am drawn to the wild ones because I can let my air down...I don't want somebody that would judge me as not being a saint....TNHW

    1. Exactly my thoughts about him though... I don't mind meeting with him, trust me.... Something tells me he isnt as bad as his comments..

    2. How did I forget to mention Maybel πŸ™„πŸ™„...I really want to meet you babes😘😘

  11. It sure would have been nice to have made this hangout though. Sorry guys, malaria won but I'm recuperating really well. I think the 2 people I really craved to meet was Thelma & Favourite, I wasn't disappointed when I finally did despite my 2years hiatus. Everyone else is super cool.
    I have no one on my "don't look toward to meeting list".

  12. Dunno why people are “wanting to meet people” and are talking about it here. What’s preventing one on one hook ups? Why can’t kabuoy go sit with Memphis, great friendship can come out of it whether registry happens or not! Live life people, make it happen and stop admiring people online, especially if you live in the same city.

    1. Tanchu. Well lets just say for gist sake we have to do this. and perharps now its gonna happen.

      I have met a number of blog readers and formed great friendships already. Infact I feel we are all great

      (Thelma, Pynk, Chris- we chat like long lost frnds , yet to meet face to face, Uyi, Sasha - a totally different personality fa. )

      Kaubouy & Smile, these two make me giggle.

      I just love this blog.
      I want to meet all......not surr of Alfarsi, I may knock his teeth out.


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