So we met and finally got talking, well just this one day when we chatted and chatted for hours and it was the most delightful thing ever, I swear it's been long since I felt this way about anyone. Something like a crush but deeper, you know that feeling when you guys talk for the first time and you totally vibe 🙈😍💑. The conversation is fire 🔥, the gist just floooooooooooooows. Like, you throw punchlines at him and he throws it right back at you with a double knockout and you guys chat like you've known each other forever. So that night it got really late and we had to go to bed but next day came and I couldn't wait to hear from him.
I've been here before but it's been so long; you know, that feeling of always looking down at your phone, checking if it's them calling, you get a message and you jump because you're hoping they're the one, and when you see it's not them your heart sinks to your belly.
You see, we'd promised we would chat yesterday because he wanted me to give him feedback on something, so I kept waiting for his call/message. And when I didn't hear from him I wanted to send a message, but I didn't.
I hate this part right here. The games. The mind games. Waiting for them to make the first move. Not wanting the balance of power to tip in his favour because he'll have the upper hand if he knows you like him. Like him-like him. And we can't have that now can, we? We don't want that setting the tone for the rest of the relationship (if there'll be one) .
So I've been struggling, should I be direct, be what some may consider aggressive? I ask because some guys, including guys on this blog, have told me that they're attracted to agressive women, women who are direct and bold and let you know exactly what they want and go after what they want. But I'm also worried that one man's idea of "aggressive" could be another man's idea of desperate! 😞
But I think that one thing we can all agree on is that if a guy wants you he'll do the work, yes?
So anyways what do you think about this? Should I "shoot my shot"; be direct and intentional about this or should I wait, watch and see???