Hello thelma and TTB Fam. Here is my own submission, your opinions are humbly welcome. I was going through my girl's phone yesterday, we both have our passwords and she's free to go through mine too. I don't mind her having male friends or even chatting with guys that like her as long as she knows when and where to draw the line. But yesterday I got the shocker of my life, I saw a chat with someone whom she saved as Alhaja, in the chat she sent the woman my full names, my profession, my age and 2 of my pictures. The woman said call my phone tomorrow so you can tell me what you want and I will tell you what to bring.
I confronted her and told her that man is done but she has been crying since saying that she only wanted them to pray and see if we are compatible bla bla. Please bear in mind that we are both Christians, Anglicans to be specific and "Alhaja" is obviously a muslim person. First off I'm just 26 and not planning to marry anytime soon. Babe is 23. We have dated for about 9 months I'm very much in love with her no doubt, but we have never even discussed getting married because I told her I don't intend to settle down until after 30. Now I'm really concerned for myself, I don't think I can continue the relationship but she is a good girl, very homely and wife material. She has always treated me very well, even when I cannot take care of her like other Lagos big boys that tries to tempt her with cash and promise of dubai or jand travel, she still remains faithful to me and manage the little I can do for her without much complaint. She has very good character which I love but after yesterday's revelation I don't just feel safe anymore and I want to break up. Do you think I'm being too harsh with my decision?