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Haha. Please is her husband justified or is this just pure evil?


  1. hahahahahaha. LOL cant remember when last I laughed this hard, is this real? I'm even confused, can this count as emotional abuse/domestic violence? lmao

  2. The drama is just too much. Everyone is now seeing their pants outside. I just can't deal.

  3. The fist thing I did was to let out a good laugh when I read this on instagram.... Me I support the man Biko, next time she was would use her brain...

  4. "...I paid your bride price in full, I love you like that. What are you using cream to do...". Chai..😁😁😁

    This is so funny, horrible and uncalled for all at once.

  5. Lmao!!! "I love you like that, what are you using cream to do"? Lol. I think he's justified though and I don't think its any form of abuse. He obviously meant well, even though his actions may seem uncaring. Its funny sha. Its not easy bringing out money in this economy for a particular reason only for madam to spend it on another thing. Loll!! She should have just asked for separate money for cream and hair. Oga does not understand that this things(cream and hair) are important to women. So whether he says he loves her like that, if she doesn't love herself like that, she's going to spend a lot of money to look good in order to love herself. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

    1. "She should have just asked for separate money for cream and hair". My sentiments too. My friend did this exact thing recently. Used money for fixing her car on personal stuff and her hubby just blanked out on her afterwards until his elder sister intervened.
      He still went overboard though... there must have been another way to expressing his pain than subjecting her to the physical and psychological anguish in the public of igwe Mmadu!

    2. May be he doesn't give her any thing at all to care for herself and she is solely dependent on him for her most basic needs.

      I absolutely think she was silly to have used car money to "slay" but there are other ways he could have shown her 'pepper'.

      Most men use this 'bride price' card to abuse women. The day they scrap this bride price thing, some men will just loose their value in life, seeing that paying it gives them this false air of ownership.

      His actions is a No-No.

  6. Though this is funny, it's very wrong and uncalled for. This is your wife not your teenage daughter. Public humiliation of one's spouse is sad no matter the circumstances. J

  7. This is quite funny, they just ended up wasting people's time and providing comic relief.

  8. The both of them a'int serious.That is public humiliation of the highest order,the same man would now tell her to off pant at home...#radarada.TNHW

  9. Hehe, things we see these days...a neighbor once asked for his water to be cut cause he wanted to teach his wife a lesson...I think the man went too far tho

  10. The woman would learn to use her brain eventually.

    As for the man, I hope he knows some people never forget. This wife will register this disgrace meted out to her, in her subconscious.

    There are better ways to communicate.

  11. No comment.

    Maybe when I'm done laughing.

  12. Hahahahahaha......I tried to form the picture in my head but laughter wont let me! Methinks that what the wife did wasn't an isolated action and it wasn't the first time....Think am na....

  13. Totally uncalled for! There are better ways to dish out punishment for this. I am sure the man is one uneducated big business man that went to the village to pick a wife. No learned well exposed husband will do this to his wife no matter what may.

  14. it's a wonder that some ppl see the humour in this, actually... so what if her preference scale decided cream and hair was more important than a car? From his comment, he doesn't look like he takes good care of the woman, anyway. He probably provides just enough money for her to look like the house girl.. If he had given he enough money for hair and cream, would she divert the car funds? This thing has been annoying me sha....
    This is why women need to be empowered. Have your own money to buy your own car and your cream and your whatever else. Then if the man gives you, it is jara...
    And please, women, we teach men how to treat us. When we laugh at this sort of treatment, let's not complain when men think women are a big joke, and domestic abuse/violence is permissible.

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