So it's been about 3 days since I put up the post about Friday night. My last few days have been a whirlwind of activities both professional and personal.
Let's talk about those two guys I met on Friday night, shall we? We'll call the singer Trey (as per treysongs) and then we'll call the other one baby boy. LOL.
Like, these two guys can't be more different from each other. Trey is probably everything a woman dreams about, first off I'd have you know he's two years younger than I am, a factor that isn't deterring either of us. I really like him, not only in the romantic sense, but like him, as a person. He is sweet and sensitive and I find that so sexy, because most guys seem to think being sensitive is feminine and would rather act indifferent. He calls when he says he will, if he doesn't he sends a message to explain why then later calls to apologize. He calls in the morning to know if I'm okay, chats me through the day to know how I'm doing, and in the evening to know how my day went. He calls me baby and love and sweetness and darling and beautiful. He's also super smart too, besides his vocal talents, he's kinda like a nerd, loves science and loves research and loves to read. He has a bad boy side to him though, which I also really like. And then he's sharp as a whip, always has the wittiest and most unexpected comebacks and makes me laugh a lot. Oh, remember I said he's really good looking too, right? Taller than I am, sexy beard, handsome face.... I smile whenever I hear his voice.
Like I said earlier, we hooked up briefly later on that day, the day we met. He came to my place and brought me dinner and a gift. Unfortunately he's really busy at work right now and we may not see until the weekend. So while I'm waiting to see that angel, this yoruba demon is taking all my time.
Seriously, baby boy is your typical yoruba demon! As in, textbook yoruba demon. He has one of those names like Tunde, Jide, Deji, Tunji, Yomi, wears white native everyday of the week and is super sleek. Baby boy is going to break my heart, I already know 😭😆. He is the kind of guy your mama warned you to stay away from. The thing is, I just can't! Gosh, BB is trouble, he's fire and I'm willingly getting burnt. We connect in a way that's so unreal, yet we argue like crazy. I cannot count the number of times he's said "Nwando you're stressing me out" in the last four days, and the number of times he's made me want to tear my eyes out. We drive each other crazy yet we don't want to be apart.
And we haven't.
We've seen everyday this week. This morning inclusive. He's so extra, that boy! The kind of person that would pay to have the whole lounge shut down just so it could be two of you.
During dinner last night my mum called me. He took the phone from me and next thing I know he was talking to her. "Good evening mummy. How are you? My name is baby boy, I'm Nwando's boyfriend. Has she told you about me?", I couldn't stop laughing. This boy won't kill me, all these boys that make girls fall for a living. SMH 😕.
Above is from breakfast this morning at Orchid Bistro and below is from dindin last night at The Blowfish.
Since we met on Saturday morning it's really been a whirlwind I tell you. When he's not wining and dining me, he's teaching me and trying to help my business "blow". LOL. But really though, our first date was all about my career, when I got exasperated with his questions he said "I'm only asking you all this so that I can know where I can come in and what I can do for you". And ever since, he's been trying. He says "Nwando I cannot leave your life the same way I met it, I want to do things for you that you'll remember in 50 years and you will still thank me".
Really though, I've told him he needs to mentor me. Now this is what's really intriguing about him, he's a spoilt rich kid yet an extremely astute business man. I have not come across any self-made young guy who's this smart and successful, in a long while.
Things get crazy with him sometimes. He's been threatening to pull my wig off all week and yesterday he finally asked me to remove it during dinner, just for a few seconds, just so he could see my "real face". I felt very nervous to be honest but I knew he wouldn't let me off the hook. So with shaky hands I took my wig off and waited for a burst of laughter from him (yes he's that kind of stupid boy that will laugh at you to your face 😏). Instead he squinted, looked at me studiously and said "You have no idea how beautiful you are". Of course our first kiss followed shortly after that.
But baby boy seems too good at this, I sometimes look at him and wonder if he's a fuck boy. Something tells me he isn't but a louder voice tells me he's purely temporary and to enjoy every bit of this moment while it lasts.
And I certainly intend to.
Trey on the other hand seems a lot more dependable and reliable. I cannot wait to spend more time with him too. His kind of job gets crazy this time of the year so I totally understand. We talk and chat all the time, but I cannot wait to be with him soon.
When I met baby boy on Saturday, Sasha said he looks like he has a private jet and I told her I doubt it. He doesn't have one but he just invited me to accompany him for a meeting outside town later today. "What airline?" I asked. "Nah we're flying private" he said, casually. I chuckled, I know Sasha is super smart but I never knew she's that intuitive.
Unfortunately I cannot leave town right now, also I'm just not quite sure travelling with baby boy is the wise thing to do at the moment.
So... That's how it's been. If you ask me, I'd say I think both "relationships" would be flitting. But which one do you think would last longer?
Can you tell whom I like more among the two?